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Shower after session? And questions about oral.
Spyro 1948 reads
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1 / 14

I was reading up about certain risk.  I read that it would be good to shower again after the session.  One before the session just to be nice and fresh.  Does anyone shower after the session, or just go about their merry way?

Another that a cbj would be safest.    

Would a provider be offended requesting a cbj and/or showering right after the session?  I probably not bother with either, but would like to hear from others.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 761 reads
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2 / 14

Do you think it'll wash off any cooties?  Some guys shower after because they don't want their wives to smell perfume on them.  Others won't shower because their wives will think they smell too clean after a long day at work.

If you do shower before and/or after, it's usually considered part of the time you're paying for.

Most providers aren't offended if you ask for CBJ.  Some may not like the taste of the condom but they suck it up and do the job.

crazyshit 580 reads
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3 / 14

As far as whether this kills germs or lowers your chances of catching an STD once you've had sex...doubtful.

If you want a CBJ, most girls will oblige.  Most guys don't want a cover down there, for obvious reasons.

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 601 reads
posted
4 / 14

i never shower after a great session..the scent of a woman and sexual fulfillment cannot be duplicated in a bottle..i actually hate to finally wash it off..

Posted By: Spyro
I was reading up about certain risk.  I read that it would be good to shower again after the session.  One before the session just to be nice and fresh.  Does anyone shower after the session, or just go about their merry way?

Another that a cbj would be safest.    

Would a provider be offended requesting a cbj and/or showering right after the session?  I probably not bother with either, but would like to hear from others.  

JustGopherIt 2 Reviews 535 reads
posted
5 / 14

Twas my first FS experience.  Was an a.m. appt. and it was offered, "so I wouldn't have to put clean clothes on a sweaty body."  It was within the time I had arranged.  If it was an evening appt., I'd probably decline for the same reasons macdaddy indicated.  But I had a lot of things to do that day before I even got home so I was grateful and accepted.

As for STD prevention, I don't think it would do boo.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 493 reads
posted
7 / 14

to have any scent on my clothing or my body when returning home. My usual practice is to "go to the gym" in the afternoon or evening before going home so a fresh shower is the norm.

fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 587 reads
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8 / 14

I've always been surprised when gents don't want to shower afterwards when they are going home to their wives.  Some of them have actually said oh she'll never get close enough to me to smell anything!  I'm thinking Wow How sad!

sethric56 14 Reviews 526 reads
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9 / 14
swimtrekr 59 Reviews 580 reads
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10 / 14

unless we really worked up a sweat, I don't usually shower after a date.  I do arrive freshly showered and groomed right before I leave to go to her.

Not a provider, but yes, cbj is safer, but I don't want anything to do with it.  There is no protection when I go south to dine on her flower, so why should I have it when she works on me?  I don't think most providers will be offended if you ask for a cbj, like someone previously said, she will just suck it up and do her job, even though she might not like it either.

Swim

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 575 reads
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11 / 14

...he is more than welcome to shower, before becoming intimate.  I do not require him to do so, but it is an option.  Many gentlemen I visit with shower after, because they will be going back to their office, or heading home.  Gentlemen may love my perfume, etc, but they do not want to "bring it home".  

  I offer many different brands of soaps, mouthwashs, etc, and many are happy that I stock the same brands, that they use at home.  

  I am not a clock watcher, per se, so if a gentleman needs a few extra minutes to shower, etc. I do not mind.

   Not usre if I answered your question, but.....

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Agnar 29 Reviews 454 reads
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12 / 14

It may sound like a big joke, but Nina Hartley says to use Saran Wrap for safe DATY.  So just bring a roll with you :)

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 488 reads
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13 / 14

It's often the little things offered that keep us coming back to certain ladies, not just the playtime stuff.

Swim

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 490 reads
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14 / 14
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