I'm seeing a provider this weekend, and one next weekend. Is this too much?  Am I overdoing it?  Am I spreading myself too thin?  By no means, am I rich, but I've saved enough.  I figure I only have one life to live, which can end any time, and I'm skeptical that there's an afterlife, so what the hell?  

That being said, for practical purposes, is seeing two providers in one week overdoing it?

what constitutes over-doing it is different. Some guys have more discretionary funds than others; some guys have more time to play than others, etc. What you should be concerned about is to only spend discretionary income for play. If you start using the mortgage money, food money, child care expense money, etc.--you have gone TOO FAR. Stay within your hobby budget and enjoy!

I've been on the planet for well into 5 decades now and while I have few regrets, they all involve some opportunity I either talked myself out of for some reason that upon reflection was goofy or not acting quickly enough!  It's only too much if you convince yourself it is!  Besides, you never know what awaits!  If someone had told me what was going to come from my 1/2 hour session with Venus 5 years ago, I would have told them they were out of their minds!  There's an opportunity I am SOO glad I didn't pass on!

If you have the available cash, and are not taking money away from normal living expenses, go for it.  You don't mention a family, so I am just generalizing. Use money you can afford to spend, not what you need to survive or support a family.  No, two providers in one week is not overdoing it.  However, watch your budget.  I rarely see more than one in a 7-day period, but sometimes circumstances require it.  Relax and have your fun.

Swim

If your budget can handle it, then go got it .... and enjoy!

...unless like the others have said you are spending rent, food, utilities, necessities money. If that is the case then yes you are overdoing it.

Mostly overdoing it isn't based on how often you see providers it's based on are you spending money you can't afford to spend.  

I have seen 6 providers in a month and I've seen two providers in a month. It all depended on my available discretionary finds at the time.

Watch your money and have fun!

I recently saw the same lady twice in one weekend!  If the experiences gives you need it's fine to indulge every now and then.  Unless you're very wealthy, you should think twice before over doing it and pace yourself.  This is, after all, a luxury and will seem a lot less special if you're over doing it.

only you will know when it is too much..me personally..i can never get enough..

And the whole day cost me less than $1000  one of the best days of my life.

2 in one week is ok if you got the money to do it, i've done it before but not often, 1 or 2 a month usually.

If seeing two girls in one week, makes you happy, Go for it!

Everybody has different needs, so to listen to "Us" makes no sense. Good luck to you and enjoy yourself.

would u even need any input on this?
bragging?

It's all up to your wants, fiscal and physical limits.

Go for it if all the math adds up.

"would u even need any input on this? bragging?"


Why would I need input on this? Excuse me, but isn't this the newbie board?  I'm honestly seeking the perspective and advice of those wiser than me on this issue, and the responses have been very helpful and insightful, so thanks to everyone who offered their perspective.

And no, I'm definitely NOT bragging.  If I were someone like, oh, say, George Clooney, who can basically get gorgeous women to sleep with him just by walking into the room, and who is one of the few dudes on this planet who arguably does NOT pay for sex in any way, then I MIGHT be able to brag, but there's nothing to brag about what I'm doing.  By saying that, I'm not saying that what I'm doing is bad. It just is what it is.