Hey, ive never done anythin like this before so i was/am a bit nervous. I am wondering if the girls care if you are a little chubby or do not look like a abercrombie model or whatever.

I am definately not bad looking but like 20 pounds overweight, i am just very selfconcious, especially with something like this.

has anyone else had this worry?

Don't worry buddy. You are not alone. A lot of guys here are overweight. Most providers care more about the green than your look.

You have nothing to worry about.  When I first started hobbying, I had the same concerns.  But think about it: Would an Abercrombie & Fitch model really need to see escort?  It's pretty much a given that a hobbyist won't look like Brad Pitt.  As long as you bring the donation and treat her with respect, she'll make you *feel like* an Abercrombie & Fitch model.

With that said, you absolutely must remember to do the hygienic courtesies.  Before you arrive, take a shower, brush your teeth, put on deodorant, etc.  Providers are concerned about hygiene, not looks.

Part of the screening process will involve submitting a portfolio of your photos to the provider to ensure that you are extremely good looking.  You must also submit your measurements (flaccid and erect, lenght and girth), as well as your CV, a writing sample, and results from your last IQ test.  Then comes the credit check.  Only if you pass this stringent screening process will you be allowed to see a provider.

Seriously, this question seems to be asked on a daily basis recently.  The answer is that the providers want someone who is clean and respectful to them, and can be discrete.  That incluldes staying in their car when they make the second call to get the apartment number  Your looks or your weight is not a concern.

I know a provider who won't see anyone who's overweight.

She told me that a guy that's like 6' and 340 lbs is too much for her to handle.

As already said above, we care that you are clean and respectful.  Many guys are overweight and many are very self conscious about it but very few providers care.

If you are a nice guy and fun to be with then you have no worries at all.  Have fun with your futures experiences

Why?  Economics.  A provider who only wants to see "abercrombie models" will not make that much money.  

So unless you are unsanitary and disrespectful you will not likely be turned away by a provider.  20lbs. overweight?  That's nothing compared to many experienced hobbyists.

-- Modified on 7/16/2007 8:04:15 PM

A hobbyist with (1) good hygiene habbits [shower right before going to see lady]; (2) a hobbyist who treats the lady with respect and is mindful of her boundaries; and (3) with plenty of green money.