I have seen providers 25-30 years younger then myself, and no it is not unsettling.
It did make me think WTF? a few times earlier on, but after a while I simply accepted that I still enjoy the 20 something providers. Since the providers are willing to entertain me and I am willing to book them, I don't see a problem.
Unless you're using Confederate currency!
The age difference is really up to you. Over the years I have found that I get along best with providers in their mid 30's. Not sure why, but that age along with other attributes, seems to work best for me. BTW, I'm in my late 50's.
And you do know about "ter age". Add 5 years to the stated age on the web site or ad! LMAO
Posted By: JustcallmeAlan
How much of an age difference can you accept before it starts to feel really weird? Younger provider, older hobbiest I mean. I'm looking at possibles for a particular date range in a locale with limited resources and they are younger and younger. It is a little unsettling. Or is it just me?
To each his own. If you prefer an older provider, there are usually several to choose from, depending on where you are.
Re "the mind of the beholder" you're right on. I'm 64 and first hobbied when I was in my early 40s. I may look a little different but don't feel any different. I'm attracted to women from late '20s to early '30s and that's just the way it is. Now, I don't have any daughters and that might make it different. But I've got a very horny buddy only a couple of years younger than me who's got daughters around 30. He was leering at a young girl once and I pointed out she was young enough to be his daughter. He came right back with, "Yeah, but she's not." Sometimes it's just that simple.
The idea of seeing a 20 year old creeps me out, probably because I have a daughter older than that. I can't imagine ever seeing a girl younger than my daughter, but that's just me. I know that sixty year olds see twenty year olds all the time. Not my thing.
That's the thing. First provider I saw was younger than my oldest daughter, the next one I see will probably be younger than my youngest daughter. But I guess at my age that's usually going to be the case.
so I have no problems internally with going out with gals who are in their 20s, but I do recall being a bit unsettled when someone refered to my date as my daugter.
I guess I can accept that for now but I don't know about when they start refering to my date as my granddaughter. I guess then I better reconsider.
I was with a young lady of about 21 years old, having lunch and some kid about 19 or 20 himself came up to us and asked "Sir, I hate to bother you, but I am smitted with the young lady with you, and I wondered if would mind if I asked her out?"
I muttered something about me not minding, as long as he didn't mind asking her with a mouth with all it's teeth knocked out. lol He skulked off without a word, and she just plained fucked my brains out less than an hour later. don't you just love a story with a happy ending? lol
That one of the things I love about Latin America, nobody thinks it's odd at all for a guy to be thirty or more years older than the woman he is with.
What you said!!!!
I used to date a hot young civvie for a few years who was 25 years younger than me. We went through it all (it's her dad, it's her sugar dad) but we didn't leet it phase us. Doesn't phase me when hobbying now either.
viva la difference.
Hell sometimes I still feel 16 (instead of the inverse).
I had a beautiful black woman on my arm when an elderly black man came up to me and scowled saying: "What are you doing with my woman?"
I turned to my date and affected a look of deep hurt said: "Why didn't you tell me you were his woman?"
She burst out laughing and the guy just wandered off.
I simply like for the girl I'm spending time with to have a nice tight body. I'm around 30 but I'll enjoy providers between 19-22.
It never comes up and at times I actually forget how old I truly am. There's a 17 year difference between her and I and we could really care less about it.
just don't have the experience to deliver a true GFE experience although there have been a few exceptions. While I have two daughters of my own in their 30's, the age factor never crosses my mind.
My first provider was 18 and I was 59. Since I have not been out in public with too many of my dates, comments about our age difference has never been an issue.
I prefer them to be from late 20's to early 40's. My faves are between 35 and 42, however. When I am looking for a provider, age is the last thing I worry about. I look at her looks, and what services she provides, and of course, her reviews.
Lack of reviews, not age, is what tips the scale for me.
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Age is mostly mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
This is a purely personal choice. Just remember, it isn't the chronological age that tells us what kind of woman she is. It's her experience in life. I have met some very young ladies that are quite mature in their demeanor, and older ladies that are flakes.
What's important is to know what you like. Who knows, maybe you'll like PYTs 
I absolutely agree with providers in their 30' or so. They have matured, are experienced, know what they like and do it very well. Often a very fun attitude, and as long as you treat them well are not rushed. For me that is about a 20 year age difference and has not been a problem. Pick elegant women, take them out to dinner and then have some fun 
the other is a little less than half. I've thoroughly enjoyed every session I've had with them and the age d1fference never came up. It goes to attitude, how you conduct yourself with them, personal hygiene, et cetera.
