I don't know how to put this politely. I'm not very sexually experienced and my experience with providers is very limited too, so I'm asking others out there what they think.
Anyways, during my single experience with a provider, I found her to be extremely loose. Like so loose I could hardly feel anything at all. I'm not terribly big, but I'm not terribly small. I'd say I'm very average-sized. Now it was late in the evening. Was it because there was just someone very large in there before me, or is that just typical for a woman who has sex a lot? Or maybe does this just vary from girl to girl?
My experience women other than the provider has been with young girls (age 24 and under, about 8 girls in all) who generally weren't particularly sexually active and I never thought they were tight at the time, but now I'm beginning to wonder.
I'm not trying to be critical, it's just the loose experience isn't very pleasurable for me and I wonder that is typical.
You cannot measure the entire provider population based upon a single encounter. What you are referring to has to be measured from all the ladies you meet individually. My advice: keep on truckin'. When you have at least 10 experiences to draw upon, you will be closer to your answer...
Just to warn you, you may get a few sarcastic replies based on your headline. But I've always wondered myself what determines the "fit", and it doesn't seem to have anything to do with body size, ethnicity, time of day, high or low volume provider. And not nearly as much with age as one might think. What's pretty clear is that women (younger or older) who really work hard on their Kegel exercises can have absolutely phenomenal vaginal tone that will just blow your socks off. There also seems to be a slight positive correlation with women who exercise a lot. In my anecdotal experience, about 1 out of every 5 providers I've seen would quality as "tight". So, it may take a bit of searching around (perhaps you could look for reviews that specifically mention the "fit"). Best of luck!
It could be that you are used to going BB with your S/O and the loss of sensation with the condom makes it feel loose to you. You might want to experiment with different condoms and give the female condom a try. Hobby on.
Good suggestion, but I've never had sex without a condom ever so it's not that. I'm beginning to think I just had a provider who was particularly loose for whatever reason.
It just varies from girl to girl, and having more sex can actually make you tighter, because of all the muscle contractions. This woman obviously doesn't know where or what KEGELS are!
another reason to see an experienced & well reviewed provider. When you see "she just laid there" it's time to look elsewhere. I find more experienced providers have learned this trick to perfection. skb
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