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GaGambler 287 reads
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The longer you wait, the less chance there will be of her fitting you in.

My advice is to not wait another moment before reaching out to her, you have no idea if she is having a great and busy trip and quite possibly can't fit you in, or if she is sitting around in her hotel room just hoping the phone will ring. Just don't be too disappointed if she is busy and can't see you, That is always a possibility, but you'll never know unless you ask.

Good luck

Baroquenoir 6 Reviews 1736 reads
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Here is my dilemma....

I've stumble upon some play time tomorrow ( early am 9ish).  A well review provider is in my area.  I've seen said provider 2x.  She has actually "popped" my hobby cherry.  Would it be rude to email / text to see if she had any availability.  I understand that she typically needs 24-48hrs notice.  I've been tossing the idea around all day and figured I would reach out for help.  

Thanks and happy holidays...

tg_baby 322 reads
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And this is from a girl who requires 24-48 hours notice.  

She'd probably prefer that you booked in advance. But even those of us who expect advance notice understand that guys sometimes get free windows of time very suddenly...and sometimes, we also have sudden windows of flexibility, even when we don't advertise as such.

NO harm in asking. Just word it appropriately...'Hello Miss, I realize that you usually need XX hours and will completely understand if you cannot accommodate my request...but due to XX and XX sudden and unexpected factors, I suddenly find myself with 2 hours of free time at 5PM today. It would positively make my day if I could see you then.'

Baroquenoir 6 Reviews 271 reads
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Thanks Gambler.. I sent an email.  You're right.  You don't know if you don't ask.

Baroquenoir 6 Reviews 288 reads
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Abrakadabra72 24 Reviews 264 reads
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I never book early.

24-48 hours notice means that's how long she needs to screen you.

Since you've already seen her she will have to screen you and will probably pencil you in as soon as you can see her.

Nightfalle 14 Reviews 188 reads
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When I'm in that situation, I send a note that says "hey, I just noticed you were in town, I'd love to see you.  I know it's short notice so please don't stress if your schedule doesn't allow for it."  Some girls have very busy schedules when they tour, others have much lighter schedules and the work is mostly to make the trip pay for itself.  Just be respectful and don't push.

Generally speaking if I find an out of town girl I really like I also let them know that if they plan to be in my area again they should feel free to proactively let me know, some women don't send unsolicited communications as a rule unless you ask for it because of privacy concerns among other reasons.

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