I'm pretty sure most of us come across this from time to time. Mostly my clients are really awesome, and totally respectful... Though every now and then, someone will behave totally atrociously. like for instance, acting all entitled to my time. they'll send a msg asking for a session, and I reply saying i'm happy to hear from them. then they get all nasty, saying something like "yeah, i find that hard to believe after you took forever to reply. so when can i come over." They actually expect me to see them again after that kind of attitude? lol. That's the beauty of being my own boss- I'm the one who decides on who I play with. period. Also. the clients who you've told what your limits are, (I honestly don't have many- though I do have a few) but during a session they continue to try to "go there." Anyone else have any of these? how do you deal with those?? should I be giving them another chance? i usually just drop those because if a client isnt gonna be respectful, i don't enjoy it and I don't want my work to turn into something I dread. Another thing. I clearly say in my ads that my services depend entirely on clients' hygiene. (Which means please be freshly showered.) I'm ok with letting my tongue roam around, but if someone wants my mouth to go somewhere they NEED to be CLEAN!!! EVERYWHERE!!!! it'll save the utterly awkward moment of having to abruptly end a session because someone has a piece of charmin stuck to their whatnot!!!
You are going to get the bottom of the barrel. Your business model is root of your problem. You also have a upselling bad review so your business model is not the only thing you should be working on.
She is new and making an effort! Which is more than can be said for some. She has been given some good advice, and perhaps she is working on implementing that, so give her some time before you start criticizing. One bad review does not tell a story, except maybe about the reviewer! While you are correct that BP is not going to usually generate the best prospects, regardless of the price point, or the ad location, she has a right to be respected. I think that was all she was saying!
Just saying that there is no need to rub it in! If she chooses to not make the recommended changes, then that's on her. If she's back in a month, still doing the same things, and still having issues, then blast away.
Where is the sugar coated novel? I wrote 5 lines which basically said that regardless of all else, she deserved to have respect, as do you, and everyone else. Nothing confusing there!
Read through the advice from several people in the threads below. You will need to cast your net more toward the "surface" to get the good "catch." Good luck and stay safe
...and as such, you need to set your boundaries and stick to them. I have equivalated this in the past to sitting down at a blackjack table and having s strategy for whether you are hitting or staying on sixteen for the entire evening rather than "playing your instincts", thus the misses will be offset by the hits over so many hours of play and you have mitigated the risk.
So you have it right and don't ever, ever see a guy who sends you the wrong vibe much less is disrespectful in an email. He is establishing the terms (boundaries) of the relationship same as the respectful guys do, only from the other side. To wit, he is saying "you are my bitch and you will listen when we are together" if you accept him into your practice, while we are communicating that we will treat you with respect and that you can expect nothing less of us. That former guy isn't going to walk in and suddenly be so charmed by you that he changes his perspective, because respecting you is never going to be his objective in the fisrt place. Chances are he has "mommy issues" and why even go there?
We used to beat the crap out of these guys with blanket parties back in my military days, "that is NOT how you treat a lady" and in a perfect world we would have blanket parties in the hobby. Those dudes quickly learned that mistreating a lady was less pleasurable to them viv-a-vis the beating they would take if his peers found out. Alas, it is not a perfect world.....
Well said man, not sure what you mean by "mommy issues" though, I mean I've been called a mommas boy in my youth, but I always know how to respect and treat a lady, which is how both my parent's raised me, and good luck to
Also good luck to you Alice I hope you'll take heed from what some of these vets are saying and refrain from doing business with such guys who don't seem right.
I'm not one to condone violence being a pacifist, but those guys who you're talking about deserved it.
You need to raise your rates. Get that 100 dollar anything off your profile asap, and start using other places to run ads. BP is ok for some areas and I am not dogging every woman who uses it, but every single one I talk to says only 1 in 10 will even screen. Seems like a bunch of bullshit to go through for less than 200 bucks. How do you afford a hotel
You need to raise your rates. Get that 100 dollar anything off your profile asap, and start using other places to run ads. BP is ok for some areas and I am not dogging every woman who uses it, but every single one I talk to says only 1 in 10 will even screen. Seems like a bunch of bullshit to go through for less than 200 bucks. How do you afford a hotel?
foreroticreview gave you some excellent advice in this and your other thread. Krista is a sweetheart and very knowledgeable, so i would listen to any advice she gives you. From your reviews your offering way to much for the price. Your price should be atleast double and have a minimum of 1 hour for the services you seem to be providing. Stop selling yourself short and get the price that you deserve. Work smarter not harder. Also i sent you an email.........
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