Not a noob but figured this would be the best place to post this. I contacted a provider through p411 with an appointment request. She got back right away and we set up something for later in the week. On her website she says she screens thoroughly, and her reviews state the same as well, saying that she is a stringent screener.

However, she never even looked at my p411 profile. (P411 members can get an email when a provider looks at your profile and I never got such email.) So she basically agreed to meet without seeing any of my oks or seeing who my oks were. Maybe it shouldn't bother me but this kind of creeps me out a little to be honest, as if she doesn't really screen and is willing to see just about anyone...I prefer not to see girls who operate this way...am I overreacting?

Just HAVING a p411 profile means you have been screened by them. That may be enough for her now. She also may simply have not looked at your profile YET. Don't forget that you were screened in order to get that profile in the first place.

the email she got included info about you.  She could have used that used that info to find out quite a bit about you, and you would never even know it.

you are right, I never thought about that for some reason!

Sometimes they go ahead and book time before screening assuming you are ok then will screen you before appointmemt

I had one girl not check my P411 profile until I called her from the parking lot.  Guess she wanted to see if she should really return the call.

eight women from p411 and have only received two of the "viewed your profile" emails.
P411 was very thorough when they screened me, even had to show them proof of retirement documents from company I retired from so most providers know their reputation and trust them. Plus they are located in Canada where prostitution is semi-legal (check wikipedia) so I doubt they draw much LE attention up there.
Date-Check says on their website that they will not screen or verify retired men don't bother to even apply so I guess p411 goes the extra mile to verify.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Canada

As others have stated,  P411 screened you and the email the provider gets tells her how many okays you have.  Once you get several, they will know you are legit without checking your profile.  The real good ones will still check your profile to see what your preferences are to make sure they know what you like.

Yep, so true. If you send us a request through the site, we get an email linking to your profile, that lets us know who you are, and that you are indeed a member of that site. That might have been all she needed. Some providers will not call your refs as long as you're a legit P411 member, so maybe that's just how she does it. I personally contact at least 2 of them for extra questions I might need to know.

Nice to hear from Providers what type of information they see when I send them a meeting request via P411. Thanks for the good info!