Hey, I am new to this this hobby and was wondering if there are any providers or hobbiest's that would be interested in giving tips, advice, etc.

Ive done a few body rubs and have had a lot of fun. There are some providers out there that I may check out soon, but a little trigger shy.

It would be great to be able to ask experienced people questions, so PM me if you would like to help.

Also, for hobbiests that reach out to me, Ive already heard horror stories about jerk customers, so if you are one of those, I dont really want to hear from you. No offense, but I am a romantic and respectable guy and dont want to be led in a wrong direction.

You can start by reading the "self help center" back on the main page near the life preserver in the upper right corner. Then read back about a dozen pages of this board. I could be wrong, but I  really don't think anyone is going to pm you, that's what this board is for. Finally, if your a romantic, you might want to try match.com.  This board isn't about romance, it's about mongering.

To avoid a long , possibly run on sentence or paragraph I will just list them individually . They are listed in the order of how you should start as well .

1. Since you can PM then you must be VIP - GREAT START !
2.  Its best to get verified on a site like date check , P411 or something. Less effective is to see ladies that will reference you as you hobby along . Screening is a HUGE hassle for these ladies and when you have made it easier for them it will go a long way .
3. Start your research when funds are in hand .

Research tips ..............Go to your chosen avenues and gaze at the beauty - That is a fun part of this for me . Come back to TER and read the reviews of the lady you are intrested in. No review = no appointment - dead serious on that one . Read ALL the reviews in the past year from the oldest to the newest . Read them very carefully as you need to understand that some are written by a guy who just left, and hormones are blocking his blood flow to the brain . Some are written by a guy with only one review - Why is that odd ???? It could be the lady herself opening an account to boost her scores and whatnot . I gave a bad review and the next one written was CLEARLY written by her ( a woman ) and countered every dislike I had that evening - It was quite eveident as guys write and feel differently about sex . Check the reviewer and how many he has . PM a few of the REVIEWERS and ask specific questions . PM a few , as not all are here regulaly and often. Lastly - if you choose a lady in say , the top ten of your area , you are pretty much assured of one hell of a good time . Maybe the top 20 ladies , but for sure the top 10 will rock your world - they did not get to the top w/o a reason ! This process can take a little effort , but so did the money you earned , so it is worth the effort .

4. Generate an email - Hello my name is Joe Blow . Date and time I would like to see you . I visited your site and read it completley , so I am familiar with what is expected from my end . Here are my references and my TER handle . Look foward to hearing back from you to confirm .
There is a recent thread on this on the Florida board , or here on the newbie board recently that the ladies seemed to agree with the way the gentleman was generating the initial e mail / contact - I simply followed it here .
5. Do NOT send 100 emails after you hear back from her . On the DAY of the appointment send one out to confirm that it is still on . Be respectful and a gentleman , word it well and check your sphelling
6 . Clean your funky ass while she is enroute . Shave your balls and dick . Dont dress in jeans and T shirt . Treat your clothing as if it was a real date - dress to impress will go a long way . If you are doing an incall , will it be at a home/condo or a hotel ? Hotel is quite different . Act like you belong . Drive around local places until you hear from her and then simply pull in the hotel parking lot , park , get out , and walk in like you are a guest like everybody else . If you are bringing a bottle of wine , then keep it in a cooler in your car and transfer it to a Target or WalMart bag before you walk in the hotel . Newbie lesson 101 - A hard on is difficult to conceal in light dress slacks with no sport coat
7. Leave the donation in plain site within minutes of you arrival. If doing outcall leave out in plain site - she will see it , trust me .
8. Your research should have been thorough enough to establish that any fetish's that you may have is what she provides . This NOT to be done in any inital e mails ( forgot that one earlier ) . Sit down take off your jacket , pour some wine and have a little get to know you talk first . At some point one of you needs to take the lead . This is where you get to tell her your likes and dislikes . She may ask before you . TELL her you like it vocal , you like it soft , then hard ,. I like this , I like that . She may leave to the bathroom and freshen up - normal . She may come out in some outfit that is for YOU to enjoy, so do so my friend . I love it when they surprise me with that one Google " tonights girlfriend " and watch the few trailers - it is pretty accurate as to how the date will go once the door is opened .
9 . HAVE THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE !!!!  Phuck like you have never phucked before - be a gentleman and have fun !
10. Leave on time .

Hope I helped like others did for me when I started .

training wheels come off.
That being said, I have never really had a bad experiemce with a Hobbyist...Thank Gawd
Now, I've seen one or two that I would not see again but not due to being an asshole...I do my homework and very very thoroughly....it's a must..especailly for girls.
Read this entire board twice....you'll be amazed at what you learn and can train your mind to learn in this biz.

Offer it to the other party & open it together.  Just like in a bar, keep your drink under your observation or disgard the remainder.  Drink tampering might be rare but it can happen.

I hate to be stereotypical, but the lower dollar amount a guy is paying, the less likely he is to see the girl as worthy of respect.

The horror stories you are hearing are often from girls who are seeing guys for less than $100. Just about ANYBODY can afford less than $100, so there is a wide range of income, education, and social skills at that price point. A quite scary range in my opinion. That is why I don't do quarter hours, half hours, discounts or specials.

I've always felt respected and almost revered in some cases by the men who see me. I think a lot of girls in the MPH (mid-priced hotties - a term I've seen used on this board) range would say the same.

(Yes, I had that happen once... and promptly asked him if he could throw on some pants and if we could sit in the living room...)

Looking at the whole thing like an "Internet date" is the best way to go. We are still women and respond powerfully to anything that looks like you tried beyond just the "bare minimum." It's the stuff you do that you "didn't have to" do that makes the biggest difference for a woman... any woman.

It's awesome when a guy has music, candles, champagne with strawberries or raspberries. One guy I saw had pulled up a "fireplace" faux fire video on his laptop in his hotel room... I thought that was so cool! Some guys get a card for the payment and you can tell he picked it out just for you. Sometimes you get flowers! (what???) And chocolates...

So an Internet date near Valentines Day!

Everything he said here is spot on... except don't call yourself "Joe Blow" or she may think you are soliciting! hahaha