Hi. Newbie here. Have not had an "encounter" yet but very much looking forward to getting started hobbying. My question is how do I get verified for a provider if I'm retired (since 9/2009). Thanks for the help.

At first I thought you were a new hobbyist who already retiered from hobbying LOL. Any way like I said unemployed and got verification I used my old work ID and my last pay stub. Being retiered you probably get a pension check that might be good enough or your employer may be able to tell them
you retiered. I am refering to using a verification site P411, d8 Check, rs2k. I'm sure there are many
here whom are retiered and will chime in with what they know.

You need to learn how to use the TER search feature, just about every topic a newbie could think of has been asked before.

Thanks for the info. I truly am a newbie and it probably shows in my ignorance on this topic. Is there a preferred verification site and are they reasonably discrete in their methods?

As a provider I recommend datecheck.

Depending on where you are located, one site might be more popular than the others.  Ask some providers and hobbyists on your regional board which one is most used where you are.  I belong to both p411 and Datecheck.  DC is cheaper, a lifetime membership is about $125.  But cheaper doesn't always make better, like I said, it depends on which is most used in your area.

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I am retired and used P411.  Because they have an 800# you can actually speak with someone there who will offer alternatives for verification such as faxing them a phone bill or your license (and you can white out portions of both).  P411 claims that, once the process is complete this info is discarded.  You have to take that on faith.  But if they mis-used it they would have been outed by now and their business would have been ruined.  Once you are verified you can use their site to find "newbie friendly" providers.  Once you've seen one, you can ask for her "OK."  That will open  up gals listed as "Basic Plus One," the  "Plus One" meaning with one OK.  You take it from there.
PS:  as has been pointed out, many providers will ask for additional verification, like DL info, but you'll have to provide it if you want to play.  This is to reduce the providers' risk of LE, and it also assures you that she's not LE.  Well reviewed gals who screen effectively are your safest bet, but this is not a no-risk hobby!

I'm also a member of Date-Check but I was never able to find an 800# for them, so I went wtih P411 first.

I answered her questions...  everything was good.
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Thanks for the info - much appreciated.

Thank you for the great info inicky. Btw - is there a list of newbie friendly providers in the Chicago area on this site? I searched but couldn't find one.

Hi Guys.... this is pornstar VENUS. I myself retired for 2 years and am just back....HELLOOO...With the times changing and girls basically doing agencies jobs for themselves THIS has become a ? for both hobbiest and providers. As a provider , part of old reason to be with agency was their prescreening process and saftey. Now though , in my little experiance , some hobbiest are uncomfortable with giving certain information, but shouldnt be or most part... Look had one guy who scanned i.d. sent b-4 hand along with work info...If you do not have a current job give her your last job info. we dont want to talk with anyone just know that your who you say you are and it isnt easy to fake orking at a place. Had another very unaccommadating guy who I decided NOT to see... You want the girl to feel safe so the ice is cut and you can enjoy your time together. I have an agency verification form and it is very detailed...I suggest you be willing to provide as much info she needs to say YES and you not feel as though u might get ur identity stolen or something. Goodluck!!!!

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