Ok, So I finally decided to take the plunge on my first time with a provider. Ive done my research and found someone with good to really good reviews on the TER (7 to 10 range on Performance & appearance) and everyone seemed genuinely happy with her. I contacted her and she got back to me in a few days. We still have yet to set an appointment and now as the need to set the appointment rises as the date that I will be in her town approaches, I find myself questioning how long of an appointment?

I dont want to arrange an appointment for 1 hour when what I really need was 2 and conversely, I dont want to arrange an appointment where I pay for 2 hours and all I need is 1...

Any recommendations?

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It all depends on your chemistry with the lady. Obviously, you are physically attracted to her, but do your personalities match. You may set a two hour appointment only to find that after 5 minutes of idle chatter, you have nothing more to say to one another. At that point, you just want to have sex and leave. Well, in this case, a two hour appointment may be too much. Conversely, you could find yourself chatting and flirting for 40 minutes and then, obviously, an hour appointment may not be long enough. Generally, I recommend an hour first time appointment. If you hit it off with a provider, there is a good chance you will want to see her for a repeat visit. Then you can book a longer appointment and will be happy to pay for the session. There is nothing worse, in any area of life, than paying for a service you dont want or need. Of course I am just looking at the mental part of all this...if the sex is great that could also dictate how much time you want to spend on a next visist as well.

Believe those reviews and go for 2...you won't regret it!

go for an hour ...if you like you can always extend or come back for more!

After looking at her reviews, I suspect that if you request only 1 hour you will leave feeling as though you went to the best buffet you've ever seen, but only had an appetizer. Hard to really say though.

I have two suggestions for you. First, ask the lady her preferences. I am often asked by gentlemen for a 1 hour appointment, and an option to continue for a second hour if things go well. In fact, if I'm seeing someone for the first time and they request two hours, I often tell them "Lets plan on one hour, and see how things go". Then again, maybe I'm just not being business savy

Alternatively, you might consider splitting the difference and requesting a 90 minute session. Her website does not indicate that this option is offered, but it doesn't indicate that it is not either. Again, inquire with the lady if you think that might be ideal for you.

Whatever your decision, good luck, have fun, and be sure to let us know how it went! It looks like you have chosen very wisely indeed!

You've done your homework and know what you want.  Understand your concern but don't analyze it to death either. I go for 2 hrs. the first with a particular provider, initially some time talking getting comfortable. A lady will usually have music playing, if not suggest it, i've asked providers to dance with me and boy what a way to get things warmed up! I love to slow swing dance, most girls love it too and bring my own cd's. This is only one suggestion but why to "go for 2 hrs." Have fun. hiat56

When I first started in the hobby, I did all 1 hr. appointments.  Now, I sometimes schedule 90 min. or 2 hours because I sometimes need the time for cup #2 (I'm in my upper 50's).

I've had many multi-pop 1 hour experiences, even though age and alcohol intake make them less possible.

If you are up for two in an hour, and she is known for two in an hour, go for it!!!

Of course depending on your stamina, longer vists are also great!

I always book one hour the first time with a new lady.  If she is worth seeing again I always book two hours on subsequent visits. I'm rarely a two pop guy but if the chemistry is there I like to take things slowly.  The key here, for me at least, would be the chemistry factor and you really can't know that going in.

. . . the 2 hour donation amount, that's what I'd recommend for your very first experience.

I happen to offer 1.5 hour appointments and those are my favorites . . . a little time to chat and relax and then FUN!

It would not be rude to ask your lady friend if you can play it by ear. Sometimes there just isnt chemistry at no fault of either party.  She will understand if you choose to leave after only an hour.
Should you share this concern with her, I am sure she would be understanding and would most likely go out of her way to make you comfortable during the first hour, making your second hour UNFORGETTABLE.
***Just a thought***

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I used to think 90 mins was good for a first meeting but I have run across a couple where 60 was plenty since the chemistry wasn't there. In 60 mins you'll know if you are getting along well. You can book longer on susequent appts.