Hi, Kids, I'm fairly new and want to know how to get verified. I'm self employed so the usual phone call verifications won't work. I don't want to submit my tax returns to 411 Preferred or any of the other services for privacy reasons. I'm willing to give out my cell phone number and even send a recent picutre. I'll also give my full name and encourage the provider to Google me. What more can I do to make the Ladies feel comfortable with me? Thanks for the advice from the old-timers and the providers. My best, K
There is a great group of gals and guys willing to help, but you have to give us a chance!!! You posted 3 replies to your original post within 2.5 hours. We're good, but not that good.
OK, so you got a joke response, but qs's cowboy comment wasn't really out of line. Is there a number that see can call that will be transferred to you, or will take a message for you.
Being self employed shouldn't be a major problem for standard screening. Does your business have a website, or some sort of web listing? Do you have an ad in the local yellow pages? Screening is all about the lady assuring herself that you are not LE. It is rare that LE will dedicate time and money to create a business to trap women. Budgets are always tight, why spend money to prosecute misdemeanors?
Your post covers most of the bases - you are willing to give personal info to individual ladies. You should do well.
BTW, it is bad form, actually against policy", to post under you "real" name, and an alias in the same topic. I let this one slide.
It's just that being overly anxious is one of those things that'll put your little head in charge, and that's not good until it's time.
I like the newbies. If any of you want to see what it's like OUTSIDE of jazz's safe haven, go to the LV board (again, ugh) and search "haters". I get to be a real asshole there, so I can be nice over here.
..use the search messages button (it's right above the board) and do a search on "self employed" or on "screening" Your question has been asked before. Here's a recent thread to get you started...
Preferred411, RS2000, or Date-Check. Another method is to build a raport with an agency and after a few dates, they might (or one of the ladies you have seen) give you a reference.
If you do a search (upper right hand corner) you will find much information on this topic.
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