One more question, I would like to be respectful and classy to the provider, I understand one of the things I can do is bringing a gift with me (other than the donation). I read that some people bring wine with them but frankly, I don't drink, I never have and I have absolutely no clue about drinks (shocking, I know). Is there anything else I can bring (something affordable and not pricey just to show some class).

That's alot of questions. All are legitimate for a newbie. 1) Yes  2) probably not unless you are XL  3) @ time of meeting  4)same answer as in 3  5) that's up to you  6)check her website  7) Relax and enjoy. They'll understand.

Believe me, the excitment of this hobby and meeting the lady of your choice (hopefully) will probably get you off at first touch. Seriously relax and breathe and enjoy.

That's an interesting approach to the virgin/non-virgin question, but that's for you to decide and I say good for you in knowing what you want.

1. I recommend one hour for the first time with a provider as you are basically checking her out; and if she's not your cup of tea, why invest more than an hour?

When you find you really click with someone, that's the time to spend more time, up to what your wallet will allow.  (And your body, but you probably have no problems there.)

2. No, you don't have to.  Just about all providers carry them.  still it doesn't hurt to be prepared.  I have had providers who forgot them.
As you say, if you want only oral (bare back oral I assume?), it's not much of an issue.

3.  The way you put it is just perfect.  No need to apologize or explain why.  The customer is always right.

4. Check the provider's reviews and make sure that multiple pops are allowed, but I'd say better than 90% do allow this now, so it should not be a problem.

5.  Tipping is at your discretion.  Thousand of posts have argued back and forth for and against this.  All gals who comment say that the best tip is to come see them again, but I've never met a gal who wasn't very pleased to receive one.

6.  If you have no references, the best thing to do is to join a screening service such as Room Service 2000 or Date Check.  Also, you can write a brief but sincere email to providers and explain your situtation.  Give them scads of personal information such as address, phone number, work place along with address and phone number.  You have to impress them that you are not a cop and that you are not a time waster.  Ask for an appointment on a specific time and place.  Good grammar and spelling count.

7.  Being a first timer, I think you would do better with a more mature provider but that is up to you.  The experienced ones know how to guide you and are gentle, and that's what you want for your first time.

As for the Newbie Manual above, I would read it and re-read it several times.  It is loaded with good information.

Best of luck to you.

Let us know how it went.

A lot of your answers can be achieved by getting VIP status here on TER. Then you can read ALL the details of the provider to help you find the perfect lady. You can see on their profile if they offer multiple pops in your session, plus if you want your blowjob uncovered (called BBBJ) or if you want it to be a covered blowjob (CBJ). VIP will get you most of your answers so here goes:

1. Yes it should give you at least two pops
2. If you want a BBBJ then you need no condoms but in case you change your mind and want to have sex the provider should provide them. (Although most guys bring a three pack for emergency)
3. It's best to tell provider this when you meet her in person as sex talk during phone contact or email contact is a big no no.
4. This can be found out in the providers profile if you have VIP status here
5. All ladies insist tips are not expected but are appreciated. Some guys do this and some don't. There is no real standard tipping percentage.
6. This will be your biggest hurdle along with your age. Most providers prefer guys 35 and older. You at the minimum will have to give her your real name, address, phone numbers, work info so she has some way to make sure you are not LE and you can be trusted. You also might have to really beg the lady to see you and tell her (and mean it!!) that you will give her whatever data she needs to feel safe you are who you say you are.
7. Some guys would say your best bet is to see a lady at an agency as the screening process isn't quite as much as a independent lady. However, with this said I had my first hobby experience with an independent and have only used a agency once thus far.
8. What I've done as far as drinks is bring a variety but since you don't drink, maybe just bring some bottled water (unopened) although once again this is kinda like a tip, not expected or required by the provider.

My biggest advice to you is do your research. I would advise a very well reviewed seasoned provider as they will be your welcome wagon into the world you are wanting to enter. Good luck and your are welcome to PM me if you have any other questions. I'm sure a lot of other people here will give you good advice as well!!