Was this an incalll or outcall agency ....

Normally, and it's been years since I've used an agency .. you call, tell them what your interested in .. give them the number of where you are staying ... they call you back, after they verify the info you give them and shortly a girl may show up that may or may not be what you wanted ... then you wheel and deal with her.....

As for incall .. I would suggest being very honest and say ... i'm new to this, I saw your ad in the phonebook and I would like to know how I go about seeing one of your incredible ladies and let them explain the process to you .. in other words let then take the lead they will be more than happy to help you through the process...... I would hope that you would forget about agencies and review the fantastic indie ladies that are reviewed here and are in your area... hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be.....

If you were asking about incall then you do not normally get the location until you confirm the day of your appointment.  Some incalls will give you the location only a couple of hours before you are to meet the provider, some will give more time, if you have to travel and informed them of that when making the initial appointment.  The "rules" vary from incall to incall.  The room number is not given until you are at the incall location.

The person who you talked to may have been inexperienced or nervous, normally if you asked location, you would be told point blank, but delicately that such information is only given out at a specific time.  The fact that you were hung up on, in my opinion, is a bad sign.  Professional incall or outcall tend to be more patient in explaining their rules than non-professional ones.  You may be better off taking this as a learning experience and moving on.

Outcalls do not discuss location at all, if they did then they would not be outcall.

The way to "start" the conversation is to say that you would like an appointment with whomever you want it with.  You should already have an idea of what is offered, so there should be no need to even go into this aspect of things. Once you are started, you will be asked for information that will be used to confirm that you are who you say you are, if you are uncomfortable giving that information the move on.