FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU SHOULDN'T MENTION THAT YOUR A NEWBIE. THAT COULD BE A RED FLAG FOR THEM.SECOND, BE VERY NICE AND RESPECTFUL (YOU BOTH WANT TO HAVE GOOD TIME). THIRD, SHOW THEM ID AND GIVE REFERENCES IF ASKED. LAST THING, NEVER HAND $$, PUT ON TABLE,CHAIR,ETC.OR USE CCARD. SO RELAX, ENJOY, AND LOOK FORWARD TO HOBBYING !!