. . . and after you read the manual and definitions, read through a bunch of the threads on the newbie boards.  Then read some of the reviews to see how things go during a date. Listen to the guys like Swim, Mr. Fisher, Boston, GaGambler, etc., who have been doing this a long time.  That's what I did and it's all cool so far. I thought this hobby was going to be all fun & games, but it requires serious study, my friend!

Seriously, be careful and stay safe.

Jeff