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Simone.Mone 1611 reads
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what can i do to make the experience for me and my client comfortable?

crazyshit325 reads

What does this mean?

Make him believe he is the only man in the world for you while he is with you, after all, that's what his fantasy is.  Make him feel like a king.  As a woman, I'm sure you can figure out what to do.

Swim

Here is my few cents.

Don't mention money once you're together, let him know how you want him to give you your donation (ie go to the bathroom and leave it on the counter immediately upon arrival)

Act natural and friendly, if you aren't attracted to him, find something to make you smile and show him how to have a good time - thats what he's there for! Not necessarily for your enjoyment, although everyone hopes that happens.

Do not watch the clock every time you switch positions, look at it discreetly while you're on your back and don't rush him, but if you are nearing the end ask if he'd like to clean up if he isn't paying attention to time. Don't say, ok time to go, that is rude.

Offer water (with ice if you're at a hotel)... this is a nice gesture and will come in handy when you are finishing up. If you have multiple appointments think about cups and maybe get an extra few from hotel staff before your appointments arrive.

Use lube so there is never a dry moment... or painful friction. This will help you last longer overall if you are high volume, and will always help if you aren't really aroused. SO much better than spit.

Umm thats all I got for now. :) good luck!

Nat

Become an actress...  do not break personna...  he is your long lost BF.  You can't keep your hands off each other.  Yes, we all know this is an illusion...  enjoy the show!

You should not have to discuss the donation.  On a first visit most want the client to place it in plain view.  There's ussually no reason to verify it.  If you must, check it while he's in the bathroom washing up or direct it to be placed on the bathroom vanity & check it behind closed doors.  
As a returning client, I leave the donation on the dresser where my clothes & pocket junk were...  I leave it behind when redressing.  A gentleman does not watch it after...  it generally gets picked up in the back & forth of dressing & bathroom but ussually I don't even glimpse it happening.

Have a place for his clothes, a chair or valet.  A place for him to put things on the corner of your dresser, next to it.  I like to empty my pockets for dressing.
 
Providers must be great time managers...  some use music tracks, NO TV.  Very rude.  Unless you have porn on.  (Worst session was a gal trying to watch her soaps during the session)  One Fav...  I noted a small clock always on side shelf in what ever room we were playing in...  but never have (4 years) caught her looking at it.   Some just have a good sense of time.  

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