that you believe would make a good "fit" for you, and one that screens via personal info and not necessarily references from another provider.  While many providers say they want a referral, if you are new, they may take that into consideration if you are PATIENT and give them other info they may ask for... trust here is a two way affair.

At the begining no one has a reference.  There are two ways
1.  find a provider willing to see you without references
2. join datecheck,411 preferred,or Room Service 2000.  They will reference check you and then you can see one of their listed providers.

I used the second method.  After you have one reference then it gets easier.

I got started by meeting her in a hotel bar when she was satified I wasn't LE we went up to my room. Had to pay her for the time in the bar but it was well worth it

and ask if there's anything else you can do for verification.  She may ask you a few questions and check your id and employer.

Or just find a woman who doesn't verify.

Agreed, it is very do-able.
I got verified with RS2K before I ever sent my first e-mail to a lady.  During the initial contact (with a few WELL reviewed ladies) I provided my RS2K info, as well as a reasonable amount of verifiable personal information, and invited a discreet call at work.  Some did call, some didn't, but every lady I contacted responded with an invitation to meet me...

My first call was rejected because I didn't have any references. I told her I was a VIP on TER, I gave her my work number, but because I was off that day she still rejected me. I called her again and gave more info, how I'd been on television and she was amazed that this was my first time with a provider. I finally gave up and called another provider and made an 11:30am appt.  For my first time is was nice... Man!! either I am large or she put an extra small condom on me... it hurt!!! and I couldn't feel a thing. Haven't had my second provider yet.. We'll see what happens next time. However, if I am able to schedule with that first provider I called and it is boring....  I will be in tears!!!!  hehehehehe