First time experience . The lady was choosen after much research - she was " hotter " than I expected and I was blown away with her beauty , conversation and overall time with me .
Went in KNOWING this was buisness - just needed to establish that ! Also understand I fall into the " nice guy " category, which looks like it might hinder me in these endeavors as well If after the second time , I find the emotional thing needs to be there , I will stop immediatly on my hobbing - only right !
Started out as I anticipated . Moved on as anticipated . I LOVED every minute of it ! Man , did I LOVE it - so hot - apperance wise - a knockout, perfect , just like I like 'em !!!!
Here is a few issue's I need some help with ...............
First......
Being a " nice " guy I need her to take more of a lead . She was very aware of my first encounter and the " nice " guy image was hard to overlook as well. I thought I gave enough hints that I needed some directions and had no problem with her being a little instructive ( as to her likes ) and maybe to be a little more dirty .  This pretty much failed, and it was pretty standard ( GREAT ) experience BUT I REALLY needed her to be vocal and aggressive to fully arouse me.     Your toughts.............Maybe my hints were not strong eneough ? Some ladies just are not that way ? Express myself better on our next " date " ?
Second ............
Fully having a great time !!!  Repeatedly told her how friggin' hot she was - every women loves a compliment, and my were sincere !!!!  So hot I will be seeing her again ! I need some experience in the bedroom dept. to know I can do it , and have some day to day confidence .
Anyway I pretty much knew I was NOT going to orgasm once the festivities started. . It was definatly in MY BRAIN - no doubt , SOMETHING up there just roadblocked the orgasm . I THINK I found out that I need an emotional attachment for a orgasm. Sad for a guy, but I am pretty sure I am now aware of this.
Providers ........Every experience this ?  Not uncommon - your opnions .

Lastly ............
I have a waterbed - don't laugh I love 'em. I have not had sex for about 20 years before this evening so never considered the sexual drawbacks of a waterbed ( live and learn ).  There is no suport for a man to develop good thrust - I am being honest !!!  My performance sucked !!!! Every time I went to GO DEEP I had no support for the thrust so it must have made her laugh at my performance the following day  Next time we are on the sofa , washing machine ,and the kitchen counters , for sure !  I don't like to tip the ladies - I like to give them the whole thing !

Many issues but would like the ladies opnions , thoughts and advice.........