I'm trying to figure out how to get references, which by itself would seem easy enough to do.  But the problem is the providers I run into on this site all require references.  Obviously, my point being that how do I get references, if all the providers worth seeing require references.


I think I just said references 12 times...

Any help would be appreciated!

joining one of the verification sites, like Date-Check or Preferred411. If you're in the midwest, RS2K is popular. Your other option is to start out by using agencies, although all agencies don't give references.

Good Luck

Some of us do understand that newbies need to start somewhere, we are willing to see you without references as long as we can verify who you are. A lot will depend on your demeanor in you emails or phone calls. Read the newbie manual, know what to NOT ask, be polite and courteous. Have you tried a verification service such as p411 or room service? That might be a good place to start.

Use independents that have email only accounts. The better ones have solid verification procedures and can smell rats. Be honest. An alternative is using highly rated agencies. Buy a VIP membership on TER, go to site reviews, look up escort agencies, check out agencies that have 4 or more reviews and have 100% ratings. Get the agency phone number and use that in TER search to look up reviews for agency providers. Good luck. Don't get in over your head, don't spend money that you do not have, use discretion.