I have joined TER off and on for a month at a time over the past couple of years but have never had a date.  Recently I took the plunge.  I have only seen 2 ladies so far.  My last meeting was a four hour dinner date (surprisingl, we actually got out of the hotel to have dinner) and I loved the discussion I had with her.  She provided me with some insight into what a woman wants in a man and I am working to effect some change in my professional life that I have been considering but had not acted on yet.  Thank God for the TER community!