I am new to this, and I am not sure where to start. I do have my own site and I was told that I have review(s), but not really sure.
Where do I go from here?
Thanks in advance.

You do have a review - try searching using only your phone number.

So what to do next?  Advertise on TER's Carolinas board.  You can post your availability one every 7 days.  Of course you can also take part in the board chat.

Something else you can do - contact TER and ask to have your username link to your profile, 100599.  This will give you free "limited" VIP status, and you can read all the details of your review.

Good Luck,

jazz32

Welcome SexyTony!! If you ever come to Greenville, SC I would love to see ya!! Do what the welcome wagon suggests and you will find this site very helpfull!!

Thanks so much. I will do these things.

you down the right path.  FYI, there is a SexiToni in Las Vegas.

Good luck!

Thanks, hey we are almost family,
SexyToni  and Sexy Tony (lol)

Anyways, thanks!

I'd change my stage name if I were you. I did a double take when I saw your post on this board. I thought Sexi Toni was joking. Good luck!

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=105452&boardID=9&page=2

...so there is no confusion!

Thanks, but I am definately not interested in changing my name, I did not know of her until just now, and I have decided to keep that name. After all, they are alot of ladies with the same name.  I am in NC and I see she is from FL, I'm sure there will be no confusion.

Thanks anyway.

I do not know if your are the "original" as you put it, however I am not going to change my name.

I'm sure there will be no confusion as I am only in NC. Also, you spell your name with  toni, and I spell my name tony.

Thanks anyway.

I couldn't imagine why any NEW provider would want to try to follow in those foot steps-
And georgus just to add the icing on the cake !! -Odd but there are no face photos on the new Ton-Y's ad or site  hahahahaaaa I'm showing my "experience" now but once upon a time this type of behavior was just known as trying to ride on the sucess of an established provider-
however, I don't think there will be any confusion either !!


and now gentlemen the original and the lovely Toni-   (*now that is one sexy lady!!!*)

is by someone who lists having seen you in Tampa on his personal review page. So it could apparently lead to some confusion.

Let's get this straight, I didn't even know you existed, so please don't flatter yourself toni.

I do not show my face, because I grew up in the same area I am working in, and I do not need to. I am not trying to do a lot of appointments, I just want to meet a few friends and have fun, and that is exactly what I am doing.

As far as trying to ride on your success? I'm not interested in that. Also, lets clear this up, my website is tonysplaymates, not sexy tony or sexy toni, so therefore I do not understand how you think that I am trying to ride on your success.

You have 14 pages of reviews, then you go girl! I am sure that in time I will have many good reviews, however since I am a new provider, I will take my time and let the cards fall where they may.

Further more, I am not interested in some caddy girl fight about some name that we both have in common, grow up honey, I am not trying to be you, act like you, or as you put it, ride on your success.

I chose the name SEXY TONY as my username and no matter what you say or do, I am not changing it.

Don't be so panicky. There will be many providers that use the name "toni or tony", hell I do know of 1 provider in charlotte who uses that name, and I knew of her way before I knew of you, so  get over your self doll. Actually I am not even thinking about you, however good luck with everything and I wish you the best.

Now to close, I am SEXY TONY from NC and I am not going to debate with Toni about this again.
kisses...

First, Toni  didn't reply to you- I did and I have no "N" as part of my name. Directing your comments at Toni is really in-appropriate because I was the one who said that entering the business and attempting to draw attention to yourself because a known established provider has a name very closely to yours is a very old and very used behavior. It has been outdated for a number of years-

Additionally, stating that you entered this business without doing any research and having any clue about what was going on doesn't speak highly of the type of discretion or protection you could afford a men who spends time with you. If you weren't aware of Sexi Toni then what else are you not aware of?-  Toni has been around since 2002 and isn't just in Florida- she also tours. You have made it painfully obvious that researching such information isn't something you have done. With North Carolina having so many just arrested wouldn't you think doing a little more research before advertising for women to work for you could be a good idea?

-NOW- a few things that both you and gentlemen who read TER should know.....besides your lack of attention to details:
This business isn't one to be casually practiced with a lacks-a-daisy type attitude. That will get both yourself as well as the men who spend time with you in very compromising situations...... Additionally, you came on this board stating "YOU"  are new to this- when in fact your ad and your web link is suggesting you are an AGENCY looking to hire women.

With North Carolina (*which you claim to be from*) taking huge hits, in the last 2 days, with local LE working w/CL it would seem you are just looking for a new home. A few suggestions:
TER recognizes agencies as just that AGENCIES.... established providers do not like women trying to direct clients to some new "fly by the night" person who is merely hoping to grasp some of the reputation and stability that she has worked years to build.

If you have someone to argue with you need to take it off the general discussion board and get registered with TER so you can use private mail. Then take it up with me, I'm the one who suggested you are attempting to "ride on the success of an established provider" ...and, to reply to your comment which you mis-directed to another provider: Yes, it does seem like you are trying to build a business and yes, it does seem like you want to use another established providers name. If this isn't the case why would you be defending the name so intensely- it's not like you have spent a great deal of money on a website or advertising or anything- plus, you only have one review and it is a 7. It really wouldn't be that HUGE of an inconvenience to select another name which wouldn't be so closely related to such a successful lady- but then you would have to build a reputation on your own and actually earn your name.... so I guess that might not be as easy as just using one already established-

I'm Tori not Toni.... there is an "R" in my name-

I could really care less about what you think about me or my website, you should grow up and get a life of your own, why are you so concerned about me and my name.

No I did not research the name, its a name, get over it.

No i am not going to change my name and that is that. Deal with it or get over it, i really don't care one way or the other, you are not putting any money in my pocket. You should worry more about what is going on with you and your business, I'm sure toni doesn't need you to speak for her.

I never defended the name, I am keeping it and I like it, so there, enough said.

Do you and stop worrying about me and my name.

Now i am through discussing this, say what you want, I will not respond anymore, I have much better things to do.

This is Sexy Tony from NC.

this may be very simple to solve with a last name added to Sexy Tony.
Yes the original Sexy Toni is absolutely an Original. Well known and very well established. She has earned her rep and to state being the original as well.
It may be just simpler if you take on a last name.
Yes Florida is quite a drive from NY but not on the net. Its really a small world, and a very small community in the reference of whos who.

You could also add NYsSexyTony or just the last name and then you are still Tony but the last name is what will define you from Toni.

As for not doing your homework and all, that comes with experience. I had no idea what to do in the begining either, its a learning process.  And about showing your face, don't worry about that, I don't show mine either and I also have my reasons as well. Many woman do not show their faces. I have no problems here with that. In this business, its common so don't worry about it. your reviews will tell the Gentlemen what you look like anyway.
I was in this biz for 3 yrs as Nicole Kelly before I found another Nicole Kelly, she is in California, but does travel to Boston often.  I don't use Kelly on the boards as to not cause confussion, but we are both fairly established. So no there will be no name change. just add a last name initial, or something as to not cause confussion.  Either way, in the end you will find you may want the extra distiction as you want to be known for who You are.  Good luck Hon...

Nicole


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Thank you so much!

You are very sweet. I appreciate the fact you are understanding and not judgemental. Some people really are acting foolishly about a simple name.

Thank You..

Good luck with everything..

The link states:
"MANY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN TO CHOSE FROM. WE HAVE CLASSY,SEXY, AND SENSUAL LADIES ALL IN RANGE OF AGES 25-40. WE OFFER MANY TYPES OF ADULT COMPANIONSHIP, RANGING FROM ONE - ON- ONE TO MASSAGE TO DOMINATION PARTIES, JUST CALL US AND WE CAN ACCOMMODATE YOU."....

This isn't the description of an independent provider's website..... this should be listed as an agency.
The other ad leads to a descriptive statement of: ........ "WE ARE AN ELITE SERVICE" ..........-

If it's an agency it need to be listed as an agency on it's profile. They are based in North Carolina- NC is a region that's experiencing problems because so many were with CL. This is just part of the influx coming out of that-

Honey, you are way to worried about what's going on with me and
my site.
Too much time on your hands darling.
Good luck with all that.

I guess that too speaks volumes about your integrity-

According to SexyTony's website she is an agency and she's not denying that. Tori- when you say she should be listed as an agency, I'm not exactly sure what you mean because her TER profile does list her as agency and not independent. Is there something I'm missing here?

As far as your name, Tony. I can definitely understand both sides, you and Toni's. Toni has a very good reputation and has worked hard to maintain that reputation. However, I also understand that when you're new to the business, you're not real sure where to start and it can be confusing. I have no doubt that you had no idea that there was another SexyToni or you probably would have chosen something a little different. SweetNicole had an excellent solution, which is to simply modify your name to include the initials of your state or something similar. Of course, that decision is totally up to you.

Welcome to TER and I'm sorry you didn't get the warm welcome that you anticipated.

Best wishes...
Paris

Thank You so much Paris2nite.

You have made my welcome just that much better.

You sound like a sweet heart. Best wishes...
Tony

First the original post stated the poster was an independent new to the business- which was not the truth-

Next, the profile was changed- only after BOTH ads linking to the profile were investigated. Additionally, the post made the suggestion that the "new to the business" was in reality a fact- the two sites linked to the profile stated contradictions reading: experienced and well established.

You obviously are only witness to the new revised version-  It is nothing more than someone recruiting unsuspecting providers to work and unsuspecting hobbyist to contribute.

Which is why it is of concern to me- this is a board that was started to help pass information along-  The truth is now being brought to light. This isn't a provider it is an agency and it hasn't been in business it is new and it is only posting in an effort to recruit-

As long as I have been around- I don't make a public post unless I have the evidence to back it up-  I believe my point was made-  Integrity goes a long way in the hobby... also, starting a "NEW" agency at a time when the area is under attack  and so many are being arrested really isn't in anyones best interest.

I obviously read these posts at the tail-end, after everything had been modified! No wonder I was confused...