Hi Isabella!  It's all about promotion, get your site out there, the more bait you use the more fish you'll catch.  I'd love to take a look at your site but there isn't a link posted in your message.  You are right, its not good form to specifically offer a discount for a review but you could offer discount to TER members...and members of other review sites.

Dont't shy away from the lack of reviews, be open about it and ask guys to TOFTT (take one for the team)...meaning encourage guys to be your first.

Good luck!

To get reviews here, you must see clients that are willing to write them.  Ask the guys if they are members, and if they are, will they write a review of your date.

Do NOT, under any circumstances, offer a discount for a review in a post on this site.  That will most likely get you banned.  I suppose that when a date is ending and you breach the subject of writing a review, you could offer the guy a discount for his next visit, as long as that is kept between you and the client.

As far as your rates and availability are concerned, that's hard to say, as I have no idea what they are.  Hopefully, they are posted on your website, which I also have not seen.

To get yourself known, start posting on your regional board regularly.  You can place an ad there once every 7 days, but you can respond to other posts all the time.  Read the newbie manual at the top of this page as well.

Hope this helps.
Swim

Post an ad on your local board, every 7 days as allowed.  Have the TER logo/link back on your site as required & include your site address in the ads.  
You can post on all the boards, just not advertize...  it can be a grey area.  But participating will let members get to know you, incxrease their comfort & perhaps over-ride the lack of reviews.  
I can't see a link to your site.  Be sure you have the necessary information.  
Photos are important.  I look for a variety of views from different angles (need not be totally explicit) but is IMHO a good test if they are real.  
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Not sure what your rates are as I can't see your website and also don't know your location so it's hard to say if your rates are too high.

If you are getting a ton of responses, I imagine your rates are competitive. You could offer a 2 week intro special to get gentleman to see you. All the rest of the advice is also great- seeing TER members and mentioning that you're new and need reviews will help you get the ball rolling.

Good luck!

Thanks so much for the feedback & helping me out with what probably should have been obvious to me - guess that's why it's the newbie board

Here is my website link that should actually work now - Again thank you.

I figure if someone is going to give you a review, they will. Some are private and may like you a lot but feel doing them on here isn't too private or feel doing them on here is a hassle. I didn't even know I had reviews until my 2nd one and then I joined the site .... I personally feel it's a bad idea to give specials for reviews...for some reason that seems tainted to me and yeah if a guy feels it was good enough and he's good enough of a client he's going to leave a review EITHER WAY. Basically they will come sooner than later don't pull your hair out.