Hi,
I'm new here and pretty much to the biz.  I was hoping to find a way to screen the members who call. Can the members pm me through this site or is there a place to request a reference from the Ladies?

I tried to get into the provider forum, but need 3 reviews on this site, and since I'm new, I don't have any reviews.

I appreciate any information.

Much Love,
Carmen

is one way.  There are other sites, so ask the ladies in your area what is the best one for the local girls around you.

Ask the guys for references from girls in your area, and contact them when the guys give you the names.  

Read reviews here and see how many reviews they have and if they have any whitelist references also.

Lots of ways until you can get into the providers' forum.

Good luck,
Swim

You need to discuss this in private with ladies here.
skb

contact several well-reviewed providers in your area and ask them for some pointers.