Hi Claire,
The girls all have their own ways.  I suggest you look on your regional board, and PM some of the local ladies for help.  From what I have read, most girls will not divulge their screening methods openly, but might tell you privately.  Use the verification sites, and whatever else you feel necessary to feel comfortable seeing the guy.

Swim

for you to be safe.  If a guy doesn't want to give you references or other information you need, then don't compromise your standards.  Most guys are gentlemen but there are some that are not.  Don't take chances; a few less dates a week are better than meeting the wrong guy who has alterior motives and is intent to harm you.

@natashalynne PM me if you can, also if you want to send me an email with help that would be wonderful theclairechoice@gmail

Verification sites are well worth it, both for the peace of mind as well as for the advertising potential they offer.

Set up an account on Date-Check with a link to your website and to any reviews you have on TER.  You will show up to hobbyists as someone who is interested in meeting and getting verified.

Once a hobbyist has been verified by enough providers, he has the ability to verify providers.  I have already verified one provider through Date-Check.

It's a great service.  I've been using it for about a month, and I've been very happy with it.

You are in a tough place to escort. The guys have a clique, and use the threat of a bad review to get discounts from a new lady, etc.

In any case, you request, they decide. If they don't want to give the info you request, that is their choice, and it is your choice not to see them. RS2K is big in Chicago. Not sure if many guys from Chicago visit Minneapolis. Just make sure the questions you ask have relevance, and you do something with the info. No good to ask his employment, and then never check.

"I need to ensure we are both safe, correct?" - Don't delude yourself. It is to make sure you are safe. Period. End of story. If it benefits the guy, so be it. But, you are screening for you, not for him.

Many ladies prefer recent lady references to screen a guy. Get to know the other ladies so you know who to trust.

...establishing yourself among the community to establish a level of trust among others.
Stay Fun & Be Safe...!
Heather of Alabama

Dear Ms. South:
Not that your interested in working for an agency, but dreams has a lot of seminars and lectures that they give their ladies when they first come on board. I am sure a lot of the seminal questions you have regarding screening and discerning if one is law enforcement would be discussed there.  Lee makes sure that all of his new hires are extremely astute of the dynamics of an encounter and he is extremely vigilant of all things that cant transpire during the course of an encounter. Also I am surprised that you haven't cultivated a relationship with an older courtesan that you can discuss a variety of topics regarding the hobby. Eventually when you have your first meet and greet you can find a provider who would be willing to discuss a variety of topics with you regarding the hobby and would give you the benefit of her experience. This will be an extremely critical time in you development as an Adult Companionship Professional.