but like anything else, you have to know how to use it.

To that end, read the Self Help Manual that you will find linked on this page.

Read up especially on how to post ads on the regional boards, and how to participate on the boards.

When you get reviews you will obtain a profile that you can then link to when ever you post.

You can also learn how to link to your ads or website as well.

Wishing you the best.

I have been on this board for a while since I have been touring latley and heard from several ladies ter is the site to play on while touring so here I am. Any advice for a new girl here

As for your posts, I'm not sure what you are talking about.  Everyone, even non-members, can read any post on all but the RO and PO Boards.

If you are asking about PMs, those are only for VIP members.  You have to either publish a review for which you'll get 2 weeks VIP, or pay the $30/month or so to get VIP status.

I cant see my posts . Been a member many years not many reviews
but the two I got approved are up . Am I considered a newbie
if i have been out of the loop for a few years?

Mr Fisher I'm a hobbyist not a provider

Mr Fisher,

I HAVE REVIEWS. This is the reason I am questioning .
TWO of my reviews posted years ago. SO is it because
I haven't been around awhile that I am unable to
use inbox mail ? After reading it clearly states you have to have
reviews. I'm still waiting for admin to reply.

TND

tndawg If your 2 reviews are years old then the VIP you earned with them has run it's course. You will have to submit more reviews and have them approved before you will be granted VIP status because of having reviews. Each approved review earns 15 days of VIP. You can do as mrfisher says and pay for VIP then you will be able to have it regardless of reviews.

Even without VIP you can "post" on the discussion boards. Your posts will likely not show up right away. They have to be checked by a moderator and then will be viewable by you and others. Even my posts on the discussion boards are checked by a moderator before they go up. ( I could request that be changed but I have not done so yet.)

The PM "private message" system is available only to TER members with VIP status.  

Your options are to pay for VIP or submit some reviews after visiting some providers and have those reviews approved and posted.

FYI: the board moderators have nothing to do with reviews being approved and posted.

jenna It appears your "New here" question ran off on a tangent. I apologize for that and my inadvertent contribution to it. Welcome to TER. mrfisher gives good advice. I will emphasize do a lot of reading. The Self-Help center and any and all FAQ sections. Good Luck with your research and your touring.

No problem sweetie no biggie were all trying to learn something here this is why this is the newbie section
xoxo

Hey thanks xyz and thanks Mr Fisher.
Now I have to search allover again.
I visited Chicago and saw an ebony provider
visiting too.I tried to book  her but
she just kept email chains going . Then she said
she went home after over 5 emails and  
will be back in a "few weeks" then another email said
a couple of weeks but as soon as one week. I finally
said forget it. Looking for slim petite not young
as I am older myself .

Thanks

TN