Sorry for being the newb, but I want the best for my wife. I also want something for me. We like exchanging pics, but are hesitant to get in to a lifestyle.

Scared and new.

Are you looking for a bi provider in New England? Or are you looking for advice on how to land and deal with said provider?

"We like exchanging pics, but are hesitant to get in to a lifestyle" I don't know what this means. Forgive me if I am just being dense, maybe someone else knows.

Lots of people here happy to help. You have to tell us, clearly, what you are looking for.

Thanks clarence37,

We are both bi and somewhat curious.  Didn't know if this was the right forum or not.  She's a lot less amicable than I am, but much less willing to take a chance.  I don't know if that makes sense.  We are not sure what we are looking for.  Maybe just an experiment?

to some it is indeed a lifestyle choice, to others its an occasional fling

you invest into this what works for you.
this isn't like swinging, its a one way street, you are the one who initiates all contact.
you see who you want when it works with your schedules.
Its P4P
when you are done pay the girl and she will be on her way
when you wanna play again no matter if its tomorrow next week or next yr its your call.
really don't over think it all.
its a great ride, sit back and enjoy...simple as that!

We are not there for that. When you are ready, come back and find something that interests you. You have a long way to go. Providers these days SCREEN their clients, meaning if you've never done this before, you are going to have to up the work info. on both you and your wife in most cases, to even get a provider to respond.  

And, this is not a "lifestyle" for us, it's a business. Some providers are swingers outside of this business, but they are in the minority. Most of us go back to raising a family, tanning, working a 9-5, reading, or whatever providers do when they are not on the clock lol. We have no desire to email and chat with a newb for months on end before you spend a dime. You will be pegged as a time waster, and probably blacklisted if you go about things that way. Sure, there are some providers that might take the time to do all that jazz, but you have to wonder why. This is not facebook or twitter, but if you want to do the pic thing, you can certainly find tons of providers who use such sites and don't even bother putting their page on private.

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You could also post on the ISO board, which is where your post might end up if someone reports it on a regional board as not appropriate for that forum.

Exchanging pics, well, that's something you would have to discuss with the provider on an individual basis to see if she is agreeable to that.   Not sure what kind of pictures you expect to exchange, but many providers have websites with plenty of pics for you to view.  

What lifestyle are you referring to?  This site is here for men and women to get together for play with consenting adults.

Swim

casino areas, there is not much action. I tried several times to set something up and in all but one case, it feel through because the provider flaked.

Also, the New England board is not nearly as lively as some other regional boards. Whatever you do, don't compromise safety and only see well-reviewed ladies.

Hopefully you will have better luck.