Ok, i've seen providers before, but it's been a while and it wasn't through p411 or TER. I went through ErosGuide and Backpage before. So, now evidently, everyone wants p411 verification. I have signed up for it and am waiting for confirmation, but every provider I have spoken to, said that not only do I need to have the p411 verification, but I need 2 references too. The p411 is no problem, but how am I supposed to get 2 references if no one will approve to see me? and the only references I would possibly have were from so long ago they wouldn't remember me?
There are gals who will see you with the P411 or other screening service.
It may help to write a well written, sincere and short letter to a provider explaining your circumstances. You may also have to give more personal information such as work phone and/or home address and phone.
Keep trying. You may have to give some extra screening information to a lady to get over that first hump or two (pun not intended) but you should be able to find several that will see you with that. It may seem strange that p411 won't get you all the way there, but if you can't find a way out of the situation the additional verification is the way to go.
Not sure what everyone on the newbies will say to it, but you might also try posting up your issue on your regional board for advice as you'll get reaction from local gents and providers.
In my area, verification agencies are not a carved in stone requirement. I expect to give a bit more info for screening as I am retired. Self-employed have similar issues.
Many ladies have alternate screening for such gentlemen. It may take a bit more time & effort. skb
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