I have been booking 1 hour appointments.. but depending.. there is usually a lot of time spent talking...and then getting down to business really doesn't take that long.. So if I am booking a 2nd appointment with a provider.. would she thimk less of me if I book a 1/2 hour instead of an hour?  The first time I saw her, we pretty much did the meet & greet..so now it's pretty much doing the deed.. so to speak.. I ask this because I booked an hour last week for my 4th visit to a provider who has her incall literally less than a mile from my house.. I walked in.. she took off all of her clothes.. (so much for delicious anticipation).. told me to do the same... I suggested that I give her a rub down.. she said .."No.. let me do you" and immediately started a BBBJ.. frankly it was a very lusty session.. she came twice.. once when I was using my hand on her during the BJ and the second when I was pounding her from behind in a spoon position while she was using a toy on herself.. she enjoys her work.. & I was the 1st appointment of the day.. as soon as we are done, she starts putting on her clothes.. I look at the clock and 35 minutes has passed.. so I'm asking.. beyond the obvious.. I did tell her that I wouldn't be around for my weekly visit due to work for quite awhile (that's a lie..she has a lot of baggage) .. I'm asking.. if I book 1/2 hour.. should I expect a dismissive attitude? There is a provider I saw about 10 days ago.. and she does offer 1/2 hour appointments.. & from a financial stand point.. it would save me $100 or so.. and I do have to start cutting down a bit..  I'm just wondering what sort of reception I'm setting myself up for.. I mean a 1/2 hour is pretty much a slam, bam,  thank you Maam approach and that's not my style.. I try to be respectful ..

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low volume.  

I have never done nor will I ever do 1/2 hour dates. I want to enjoy the journey rather than have the provider try to get me to finish quickly.

THat's pretty much my point.. Not sure if1/2 hour would be good for me or the provider I see.. The provider 10 days ago.. suggested I make a weekely appt.. I said that I would go broke if I did that..she said "I do offer 1/2 hour appts.." and therefore my question..

low volume.

Who REALLY cares? As long as the next guy isn't tapping me on the back asking if I am almost done, why does it matter if she see's one guy or 10 a day? As long as she makes me feel like I am the only one, I can forget about the other guys.

I am a talker, I have never had a 1/2 hour date, but if there's nothing you want to talk about, why pay her to talk if all you want to do is fuck? I sure would not be happy if I paid for an hour, was there for 30 minutes, was done with the deed, and she started getting dressed

I do like taking some time to get to know her.  I'm usually a one and done guy, and I have never felt rushed out the door after the pop.  Think you should be a bit more thorough in your research and try to avoid providers who start getting dressed as soon as you finish.  A little snuggle time in the afterglow is always nice.

Swim

Many ladies will not offer 1/2 dates. They don't feel its enough time to properly run a session. From their vantage point its too rushed. Many clients feel the same way. Their choice.

However, if a lady offers you a 1/2 session, she certainly will not look at your in a derogatory manner if you partake. But, as you indicated, you understand what the session is about. It's pretty much strip, complete the act, get dressed and leave. While the lady will not treat you poorly, understand she is not going to be all smiles. There isn't any time to cultivate any semblance of a connection. Also, the lady is not going to be giving of her time. If you book an hour session, you may be there for an hour and fifteen to an hour and 1/2. With well reviewed ladies it can happen a lot. However, if you book a 1/2 hour session, she is not going to let you linger for 15-20 minutes longer (obviously, if she did, she could have just gotten you to book the hour session and be compensated accordingly). You'll be out of there in 1/2 an hour; most times prob. less.    

But this works for many guys as their sole purpose is to get off. They don't want to engage in all the other aspects of a session (introductory banter, longer foreplay, cuddling/recovery chatter, a second pop, conversation as you dress, etc.)  

So don't sweat it. If due to financial limitations, a 1/2 hour is all you can afford, then by all means, do not feel guilty about partaking in them if offered. Enjoy your limited time.  

As an aside, you prob. should consider seeing some better well reviewed women. If the provider you are seeing regularly is putting her clothes back on at 35 minutes of an hour session, she is definitely not offering you a full appointment. There are many wonderful ladies who will go the distance for you and beyond. You should never walk out of a session feeling cheated with respect to time.

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Why pay for chit chat when you are still being rushed to take your damn clothes off? Yah, just do the half. She sounds more like a truck stop type.

...at the 35 minute mark shorted you. When I pay for an hour I want an hour. If you want to do 30 minutes sometimes go ahead. Ladies that offer it won't think anything of it. But if you pay for an hour make sure you get the hour. I don't want no clothes on her or me at 35 minutes. If a provider did that to me I would have her on my "ain't seein' her again" list immediately.  

My preference is minimum 1 hour. I'm not interested in shorter than that. I enjoy the chit chat time, shower together, and so on. Often the 30 minute rate is so close to the hour rate may as well go the hour and enjoy it.

I'm having a little trouble understanding why a provider who offers 30 minute appointments would think less of you for booking one.  If you want to fuck and leave by all means find the ladies that fit that criteria. You are over thinking this.

YOu are right about that.. I have to move my sights upward a bit.. quality, not quanity..

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