Just my thoughts.....  building your confidence in the provider by researching reviews posted and making yourself familiar with her mannerisms might give you more confidence and will ease your level of being nervous.

Many provider also blog their thoughts so this is another way of getting to know more about who your provider is and what her thoughts are.

Unless you are seeking a PSE, most providers are willing to establish a level of comfort. I'd suggest you empower yourself with knowledge and the uneasy feeling should start to fade.

Best wishes .... kisses ~Tori

Try a different strategy.  Make a date that is not going to be full service. Find a lady that will agree to this up front. Take her out for coffee, lunch, whatever (ask her for a suggestion, what does she like to do?).  Don't be afraid to tell her about your fears, she has probably seen more than you can imagine. And I promise she will not laugh at you.  Note: you will still need to pay her for her time and pick up any incidental costs. Your investment cost to get in the game.  There will be no pressure or expectations playiing out in your mind, less stressful for you.  Maybe you even need to do this more than once.  My guess: You will find that escorts are truly wonderful women, they will listen to you, your anxiety will subside and you will be ready for the "next step".

I'll bet you can find one who reads this post and is willing to help. Get a VIP personal message box

Good luck

I am fairly new to this hobby and remember just how nervous I was my first time. I added a link that helped me before my first date.  Hope it helps and good luck.

If you pick an experienced & well reviewed provider, she should make you feel comfortable.  Email her upfront that you are new at this.  Your knees will be weak as you approach the door.  You will knock on the door and she will open it and invite you in.  From that point on she will make you feel comfortable.  Afterwards, you will be glad you brought up the courage to go through with it.  Go For It!!!