Many providers it seems don't like phone calls unless you know you are ready to set up something official. Texts are also not welcome. I don't have an issue with either one of these desires. With that said I generally use backpage, and the women don't always provide enough detail, unless they have to have their own website or work for an agency.
There are times that I might want to now a good time to try to meet someone, and I strangly enough I might want to know something such as how tall the female is because I am short. Soem people will say that is petty, and I won't argue against it. In order to avoid having a provider talking on the phone with me, when someone else might be ready to book I prefer to use the "reply" option in backpage. I never ask anything explicit, but I seem to not get a lot of responses. The only question I have ever asked were with regard to price once, height twice, and maybe when they might be availible. I have only gotten one reply out of 4, to be honest.
Is there a reason someone might not want to answer those questions? Should I just make the phone call even if I know I may not be about to set anything up? Should I just consider the nonresponders as being unprofessional, and cut my losses.
where you are. I recently replied thru BP to a couple of ads, and got responses that I got did not seem to address me specifically, but read more like generic responses addressed to anyone. I would think that most providers do not want to talk to you on the phone unless you are actually making a date. Reason being, time is money for them, and if you are not making a date, you are just basically wasting their time, at least in their mind. Same goes for text messages. In regard to your height, providers don't care if you are short. I'm only 5-8 and have been with several that were taller than me. Once your horizontal, it doesn't make any difference who's taller.
A few words of caution. Look anywhere for potential providers to visit, but do the research on them. Check out the pics, the phone number, and look for reviews. A lot of providers that use sites like backpage do not have reviews. If they seem too good to be true, they probably are just that.
If you have not yet seen anyone, consider joining one or more of the verification sites. Preferred411 does have a feature that allows providers to let hobbyists know if they are newbie friendly. DateCheck and RoomService2000 are the other big ones. Check and see which is most popular in your area.
however, based on your post, you may be coming across as a tire kicker/ time waster. If so you won't get a reply. Why not shop here on the regional ad boards. You might try other escort malls, like eros or cityvibe. However, you'll have many of the same issues on those malls, as you find on bp. Also take a look at the new ter ads where you hobby. However, you'll need to be vip, to read the juicy details.
Also keep in mind that many of the "fly-by-night" kinda gals, do not have a computer/laptop to access their e-mail, so they just may not be getting them at all. There are also the gals who use different e-mail addresses each time they post, so their prior posts will not be connected, & again, don't ever check those e-mails for actual messages.
My suggestion would be start with the provides that have that information in their ad or profile already. Providers who make all this information available in the ad and or on their website maybe not want to answer questions to which they provided the information to? Maybe they are in public and cannot speak? Maybe try asking them at the beginning of the conversation if it is a good time to speak? I am not sure why you have been getting this response? I am always happy to hear from clients. Try a different approach, and try different forums, such as cityvibe, TER, etc. You can check out the etiquette section on my website listed below as it has very useful guidelines on how to call, book, and treat your companion to maximize your experience and make things run smoothly.
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