Hello,

I am new to all of this.  I am married, and obviously need that no-one find out about this.  What is the best way to do this.  Everyone says come to TER, and there you'll find 100% legit, no "LE" escorts, but i have also seen that nothing is 100% safe.  How do i know that the girl i am interested in is 100% not LE, and simply an escort?  Please help!

That's about what you'll get when you use the information provided on this site.

The best way to get started learning is to click on a link near the top of this page called the Newbie Manual and start reading up on how to find a safe gal and play safe in general.

If you want 100%, you won't find it in this world.

Buy the VIP, read the reviews and the discussion boards, learn from them - find a well reviewed lady, email or call her from a private email (yahoo, g-mail, etc) or "burn" phone and test the waters (I would say minimum 10 good reviews from well established reviewers). Nothing is 100% in this world except that one day you will die. Other than that, it is getting yourself to the point of getting as much information and making the best decision.

LE is lazy. They know they have to enforce the laws but the truth is that half of them are seeing escorts themselves.  So think of what a sting would look like if you are lazy, doing it only 8 hours a day, and trying to make sure you are on safe territory?  Once you get in the head of a vice cop its not hard to avoid stings.  For starters, they love the hotel sting. They like to set up a decoy cop in a hotel room who posts multiple ads to craigslist or backpage with a few photos that don't really show anything explicit or the face.  On the other hand, if it does show face or explicit stuff and it is too good to be true (i.e. she looks like Raquel Welch and is charging 150) thats also a tip-off.  if a phone # is posted, a quick google of the phone # will show if the same # has been posted with multiple ads--this can be a tip-off for LE and scams--both wonderful things to avoid

Also, along the lines of them being lazy, if a girl is willing to engage in multiple day e-mail or phone exchanges with you the LE factor goes WAY down.  LE usually sets up one-day-only outcall hotel stings. Unless of course its an election year and somebody is trying to catch the incumbent mayor have hookers delivered to his home LOL

The truth is that lots of us are very skittish about stings but if you just use your smarts its not that hard to avoid 99.999% of them.