Newbie - FAQ

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Hi, obviously new here and actually to this whole scene, to enlighten further...i've recently stepped into the business as an escort. note! no experience only one companion date..which was extra perfect.muah!! but cant filter through all the advice of who where  and how to get started as a companion for high-end corporate business men.that have a need for extreem face value presentation, [first impression] anyone? please.

PrettyGirlProblems5002 reads

When I entered the job market I wanted to start on the corporate executive level myself (silly me). Interestingly enough I found I had to slug it out in the trenches first to earn my red tie.  Perhaps a semblance of humility on your part in learning the industry will better serve you to someday be a captain of it.

You can only hope to get a hobbyist like me to save you from the boringness of the corporate mentality.

Gothicman3498 reads

Do an honest evaluation of yourself first. Most of us consider ourselve ravishingly attractive and a few of us actually are. If you are not ravishingly, out of this world beautiful you should not market yourself as.
Say that you have the right stuff for looks. Now the hard part start. If you market yourself as a classy companion to high end men, you must work to be just that. Realize that you are dealing with men that that finger the prettiest women in their company and have most of them if they wanted have them. Of course most smart executives would not have any woman in their company save to make her a mate because doing so opens up a big can of worms. Now enter the high class escort that is beautiful and fit, stylish well groomed, and dependable. With such an escort an executive can have a discreet encounter that is enjoyable and trouble free.
If you have the right qualities, market yourself as such, live up to your promises and price your services accordingly. You will find enough takers to make your efforts worthwhile.

I am assuming you have what it takes in looks and skill. If you don't have it in looks then you better deliver with skill. If you have neither, then you will need to learn skill.

If you want quality clients you must deliver quality service: Ten hints to success follow.
1) You are only going to end up on the arm of an executive that is single if they have not girl friend. They are too visible. You will always be his escort in bed. You might be a dinner date for an out of town visiting exec.

2) Get a nice hotel room for incall work. Excutives frequent hotels for dining, meetings, conventions and lodging. They feel comfortable in hotels.  This way you don't have to spend big money on a fine apartment. Change hotels regularly so you don't piss off the security people.
3) If you have a schedule of clients make sure the room and the bed are fresh for your next client. Coming in to a room and getting in bed that has just been used is a downer. I even had an escorts previous thong and bra be lying there on the sheets that were wrinkled.
4) Make sure you are fresh and clean all over especially for the 69ers. Getting read for DATY and getting a bad smell is the biggest turn off in the world. The French are wrong, essenc natural sucks.
5) Be on time all the time. Yes there are some top rated escorts that get away with being late, but it turns off all executives. It shows a lack of respect. Don't be greedy and schedule yourself too tight.
6) Always give him a little extra time. The first time go overboard, you will sink the hook and his ego will be flattered.
7) Be very intersted in everything he says and ask polite but not way too probing questions. If they don't want questions then just be a provider. Most men in those positions are egocentric, I know I am one.
8) This pay by the pop bullshit is just that. What is the price of condom. If he bought an hour and can cum 25 times, fantastic marry the guy. Seriously, make them feel special.
9) Come up with nice words if you are not into CIM or Greek. You don't have to say it right up front and sound negative. If it starts going in that direction like CIM beg for a facial or Russian.  If he is heading for Greek tell him he is wonderful and you want to watch him from CG.
10) Each market is different. I don't believe you have to start at the bottom and work your way up. If you have the goods and deliver than you can get the clients.  We all want the fresh ones who are fabulous.



-- Modified on 1/14/2006 12:55:47 PM

coming from another exec:  don't look like a skank when you walk in my door or vice-versa.  Just like the person who said to have fresh-looking/smelling sheets and cootch, don't have on a wrinkled negligee w/o panties which just gives me the impression you've been fucking different guys all day and I'm number 8 out of 10.  Wear something sexy and classy-looking... just a thought

You should also remember when you dress for a date that you don't want to accidentally send the gent away with anything that he may have to explain later. I was speaking to a provider last week as she was preparing for an appointment. She happened to mention her perfume. I advised her that if the gent goes home with your scent on him he might have some 'splainin' to do. I also read a recent review where the author complained that the provider left bite marks on him. Good luck explaining that one when you get home Pal! ;)

thirsty

-- Modified on 1/15/2006 10:15:50 AM

Nownagain4417 reads

Though a newb, let me just say in speaking on behalf of the blue collars, who likely will become the practice fodder, in transitioning to more lucrative targets, I'm confident these tips would be welcomed, and appreciated equally by all.

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