Trying to figure out where to get the ter number for clients to look me up so they can review me

Your TER number is assigned when your first review goes up.

To elaborate - when we (a client) goes to write a new review, we have the option of selecting an existing provider or creating a new profile for an initial review. Someone will just have to create a new profile for you. Once approved, you'll be able to "claim" the profile as your own.

How do i let people know I am looking to be reviewed from someone credible from this site?  Im not even sure where I can post yet...anyone have advise?  TY

If you can post on the Newbie board then you can post on any of the regional boards and most of the other boards. You wont have access to the Provider Only board or the Reviewer only board (but on the latter you shouldn't have access anyhow.)

 
When you have a session you can just ask if the customer is on TER and if so would they leave a review. I suppose you could ask for TER handles in your screening (I've seen that before) and, if you paid for VIP, look at how many reviews they have done and how honest they appear (if they are all 10/10 no one is going to believe them so not credible, same if they are all 5/5) and if they have at least a couple of years history or reviews and more than 10. But a lot of reviewers on TER are a bit reluctant to provide their handle for fear of repercussions if the review is not one you like.