Hi ladies and gentlemen.   I have my first meeting with a companion later this week.   I know  that this post will  probably  not be taken seriously but I am honestly not sure what to  do.  When I was  married I always  made sure that I was well groomed in the event that   my spouse felt like making love to me  with her mouth.  I think I should extend the same courtesy in the event my dinner date turns into something more , should  I trim  or shave?

I'd suggest trimming only if you're out of control, lol, but I personally don't like my men shaved.  
 

I believe the general consensus was trimmed and neat. Many of the providers stated they don't like completely bare.  

do the same as you have done in the past.  Most providers, from what I have read, appreciate a well-groomed man.

1. it does seem to improve my own sensitivity and therefore my own experience, and
2. the two providers I see the most seem to like it.

One gal I know likes me to be shaved, except to keep a one inch wide landing strip in the center so her sensitive parts don't get any stubble.

But another gal hates the whole stubble thing, so I don't shave at all before seeing her.

Others either don't care or won't say.

maybe around a week before to avoid stubble.

in P4P, it does turn into something more.  There are no doubts about getting on the scoreboard.  What is not known is how many runs will be scored and how.