You could also post this on your local board.

The other way would be to get a list of a number of providers you are thinking of seeing, and then read through their reviews and research their websites for clues as to who would and who would not see a newbie.

I'm not saying it can be done in an hour, but it would be an interesting way to spend a weekend.

I've done my homework, read up on everything about etiquette safety etc.

However I'm having a devil of a time finding provider's who don't need references. Often several.

I'm getting verified through 411, but from what I understand this isn't enough usually. What should I do?

Also, do providers require the usual employment info IN ADDITION to 411? Isn't the whole point to avoid giving out your info directly? Alot of date forms make me wonder.

Your new and until a track record of your behavior is noted whatever it takes you'll have to do. Each lady has their own requirements as to screening and yes, they may want your work info again. You can find plenty of ladies on BackPage who may not care who you are but they may not be who you want to get involved with. Lots of stings set up to get the guys these days. Also a lady who isn't known somehow in this circle won't make a good reference at all. Keep trying and do your research. I see plenty of newbies myself in my area.

PS : where are you located

Kisses Haley

If your handle means you're from Chicago, it will be easy for you to find newbie friendly providers with no "OKs."  Each provider's profile includes this info.  After you've seen one, ask for her OK through the site.  Once you have a couple, you can see anybody. Good luck.

I know you have spent money on P411 which I love and am a member but you might have many more choices from RS2k in the Chicago area.

Kisses Haley

Yes.  I joined p411 when I first started to hobby in Texas, and have been somewhat hampered by it when I travel to areas, where something else is used more, but overall, p411 has been great and you can usually find women in most places that will accept it...

even though they could use me as a reference. Many can't use TER most of the time since retirement and over the shoulder company seem to hinder their private time. Once you are screened it takes minutes to find a lady and send a note of interest with your phone number. Once screened ahead of time makes some last minute dates easy to arrange. It's a win win and glad you shared your info

Kisses Haley

When I was a newbie, I first started seeing providers on eros, and backpage who didn't require the 411 check. These providers were well known in the area, and after I had five of them under my belt, providers knew I was legit.

I'd say check backpage, and eros, find a young lady you like and do your homework on her. If she's seems legit based on reviews, and other ads posted in the past I'd say go for it.

NOTE: Backpage maybe a good start, since a lot of those girls are "run the mill" type providers, and they dont background check you as deeply, but make sure they're legit first.

and ease any stress you may be having during your first time with P4P.

Get VIP, read the details in the reviews and have a great time.