Just my take on this:Get the client to provide a reference from a known provider or two would be the first option.If not,get him to give up some basic info like the phone #no. to where he works at so as to confirm his background isn't being a cop or unemployed convict.(call his workplace to see if they have a person by that name and that you want to leave a 'message' to call back.That should do the trick I think) lol Also if he has membership to verification websites like RoomService2000,Preferred 411 or Date Check that also can go a long way in helping out.
Hi, whats the proper way to verify? What do u ask for ans how do you verify? What's going to far (if applicable) or what's not asking for enough?
Like I mentioned before, I'm starting to get back into becoming a provider, I stopped in August to pursue my degree, but started that March of 2012! So I am pretty much still new, and just discovering this site!
Just my take on this:Get the client to provide a reference from a known provider or two would be the first option.If not,get him to give up some basic info like the phone #no. to where he works at so as to confirm his background isn't being a cop or unemployed convict.(call his workplace to see if they have a person by that name and that you want to leave a 'message' to call back.That should do the trick I think) lol Also if he has membership to verification websites like RoomService2000,Preferred 411 or Date Check that also can go a long way in helping out.
Ladies verify in different ways. Some ways they do not want to talk about on the public boards, but they may help you backchannel.
Generally you are trying to find out if the guy us who he says he is, and that hopefully he is not a cop or a psycho. If you use provider references, some ladies will share a lot more information. (The guys like or dislikes, antics in the bedroom, dick size (ask London)) other ladies will only share whether they saw the guy and would they see him again.
If you use work verification, basically you just find out the guy is real and he works for abc corp or whatever. (if you do that make sure the company is real--it is not beyond some unscrupulous guys to make up a fake work place)
If you use p411 or one of the other verification agencies, basically you just find out if other ladies saw him and gave him an ok. Same with TER whitelists and TER reviews. But you can probably contact some ladies he has seen to get mire info.
There are also blacklist sites you can check to make sure a guy is not on them.
In any case if you want more info than "this guy is real and ge is not LE" you will need to get that from other providers who have seen him.
Good luck. Hopefully some ladies will chime in and maybe some will give you backchannel info.
BTW, I checked out the Carolina board post. Good info from Julia. I was actually expecting her to chime in here, (as she usually does with screening questions) but didnt realize Krystal had asked that somewhere else, and JLS already answered.
And your answer and mine, did sound very similar. Great Minds think alike
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