Hi Tracey, welcome to the Newbie Board

I don't recall you posting on this board before, and from what you said in your other message in my queue, I suspect that you are talking about your posts on the General Discussion board, which I don't moderate, so this is the first time this has been brought to my attention.

I think I see the problem.  If you want to post a link to your site, the TER badge or banner has to appear on either the "adult content page", or the first page that it links to, in your case, your home page.

The moderator of the GD board can be a bit of a stickler on this rule.  Given the nature of the board, no ads, and the traffic there, it wouldn't surprise me if she doesn't take the time inform people why their message wasn't posted.  

So here are some things you can do:
1) Add the link to TER on your site.  PM me, or email me at [email protected] if you need help with this.
2) You can always post a link to your TER profile, http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=88261.
3) Contact [email protected] to claim your profile.  This will give you FREE "limited VIP" status, which means that you will be able to read you reviews in full, and use TER mail feature.
4) I see you have 3 reviews.  This makes you eligible for access to TER's Providers Only board.  Click the link on the left margin of this board, and follow the instructions.

I'm sorry for the frustration you've experienced, and hope my suggestions will help,

jazz32

is to improve the pics on your web site.  Get a professional photographer to take some nice modest shots (no need to show your face if you don't want to--there are ways).  Why the flower pics?  BTW, your verbaige is well above average.  I like your way with words.