I have never asked a provider for more pics. I rely on the reviews for what her face is like, if it’s not shown on the ads. But since being over forty, looks has become less important to me than attitude and personality anyways. That’s just me.  

 
There are plenty of guys who do ask for pictures, and would tell you it’s fine to do so, but that’s why a lot of provider ads say “I do not send pics”, and a growing number of them say something along the lines of “if you ask for pictures I will block you.”

 
I have had a few ladies who were face in surprise me with a face pic after screening and booking confirmation but I’ve never asked. Occasionally you’ll see an ad that says they send face pictures or do FaceTime after screening.  

 
Rates have absolutely nothing to do with it. It’s a matter of courtesy and respect, and understanding that a lot of these women don’t want their parents, friends, and everyone else knowing what they’re doing. And with social media and everything else in our digital world, that could follow them around long after they retire.  

 
I’m not going to say that it’s absolutely wrong to ask for pics, but IMO it’s rude. And it’s unlikely to work. You may have honest intentions, but providers deal with a LOT of pic collector assholes with no intention of booking. Also, even if you are going to become a customer, how does she know what you’re going to do with that pic? We’re here to make sure they’re legit. Is she gonna blackmail me or dox me? Is she LE? Is she a scammer? Etc etc. Don’t you think providers have the same anxieties, and more, about the guys contacting them?

 
If you start asking face in ladies for face pics you might find yourself on the blacklists, especially if you’re new and don’t have any reputation in your local scene.  

 
My advice is use the reviews to get an idea if she’s pretty. When you get there, if you think she’s kinda homely then focus on whatever you do like about her. Also just understand that this isn’t something where you’re going to find your “perfect match” through the ads and reviews without trying anyone. It’s about the variety and excitement of meeting someone new. You go meet someone and see what happens.  

 
Sometimes you know early on in a session that you’re not clicking great and you’re not going to repeat, and that’s okay. Be respectful and make the most of your time together and move on. Other times you’ll find someone you’ll see again and again over a long period of time, but you’re still going to keep seeing new ladies.  

 
I don’t know if this is you or not, but a lot of newbies think they’re going to be able to “shop around” online to the point that they know beyond doubt that everything is going to be completely perfect and exactly what they want before even reaching out. IMO that’s ridiculous. For one thing, when you’re new you don’t really know what you want anyway. The research is to find one who’s your “type” and make sure she’s safe and an honest, decent provider. After that, go have an adventure.  

 
That’s how I choose to look at it. The fewer expectations you have going in, especially very specific expectations, the less likely you are to be disappointed. It’s about the thrill and variety, not finding perfection on the first attempt.