I have my first meeting scheduled and I'm a little nervous about something. I'm a heavy guy and I have been all my life. A person being significantly overweight is not generally a turn on for most people. I'm wondering, how does a clients weight usually affect a provider's disposition to the client? Is it something that a professional provider will usually accept?

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Hope it helps you out.

It's been covered here a number of times. Don't know if this helps but I'm 6'2" and 280 and my weight has never been a problem.

Present yourself as a gentleman (respect works both ways), ensure you have exceptional hygiene, some intelligent conversation to get comfortable and you'll be good to go.

Enjoy!

providers see clients of all shapes and sizes..not everyone they see is going to be a 25year-old hard body..as long as you show up on time..bring your envelope..and are clean..they will love you..they are not there to judge you on your looks..they have a job to do..and do it well..

I'd be a lot more comfortable if I was 6'2" and 280. 6'1" and 345 is more my area.

Be clean, bring the green, be respectful and on time. Do not physically smother her, unless she likes that, so treat her like any other woman you have been to bed with. Oh yeah and have fun.   The other issues will work themselves out. Don't worry so much about it.