A newbie question here.  

If you come in the condom after fucking, do you go clean yourself up? Will the provider take the lead?  I'm just trying to avoid it being an awkward moment.

I'm sure every provider has her own preference. I alway take the condom off, dispose of it and clean the gentleman up, unless he prefer to do it himself.

Yes, just take the condom off and dispose of it properly. Its a natural thing I would think, and there's shouldn't be nothing awkward about that.

whatever you do, don't put it on the side table or the floor. a lot of guys think that it's cool to do that until they feel more up to moving. It's just nasty when they forget it

I remove it from the gentleman and clean him up with a damp, warm towel then I dispose of it.  She'll make the move on it if that's what she does, if not excuse yourself to the bathroom and dispose of it there.

lOL, you mean more awkward than fucking a total stranger?

Ok, all kidding aside some ladies will remove the cover and clean you up, some won't.  Lay back for a minute or so and see what happens.  If she doesn't get up right away then you are on your own...

Most ladies will get up & remove it & provide clean up.  If she does not then you need to.  AS has been said, remove cover, go to bathroom & dispose of it, wash yourself & hands, return.
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Ok, I will share my first and only for right now experience since I new as well. What happened was I finished and the lady took the cover off, went to the bathroom, threw it away and came up to me with a warm wet towel to clean me up. I did not even have to wait. She took the first step right away.

and are not biodegradable. Put them in tissue and toss them in the trash. Or if you are paranoid about providers impregnating themselves with your 24-karat gold jizz, take it with you.

"Or if you are paranoid about providers impregnating themselves with your 24-karat gold jizz, take it with you."

Oh wow,

I have not thought of this until now. I guess I still have to learn a lot.