Alright, this is probably going to seem like a really wierd question, even considering the place I'm posting it, because I've found no other reference in the past.
I'm pretty lucky (relatively speaking) right now. Put into perspective that means I have the financial means and the time available for what I'm about to ask, so please don't bring that up.
My question relates to spending more than a few hours with a provider. I've read through lots of provider web sites who list prices for several hours of time, and I'm curious as to what you do with all that time? I mean, I understand given several hours of time you'd probably spend a some time in private, have a lunch/dinner date, but beyond that I'm clueless. Would you just spend time together talking? Perhaps go dancing, watch a movie, typical date stuff, or what?
I know the answer is probably obvious, hell I probably answered myself, but every time I think about it (and the options I came up with) I get the feeling that the answer is right there, but not little voice goes off in my head and says "Duh, you're right you idiot!" I need some sort of opinion/confirmation.
The question is: what would YOU like to do with an extended amount of time? Any of those things you mentioned are fine. Why not plan something you may have been wanting to do for awhile, but haven't been able to. Movie, dinner, theatre, skydiving in the summer, talking over coffee, dancing, clubbing, whatever. Have someone in particular in mind? Ask her if she has any ideas if you are stumped.
Plan to do whatever you like. It really is up to you. Here are a few of the things I find myself doing most often.
The most common date for me is dinner, followed by theatre. I also have two clients who like to go to movies a few times a year. Occasionally clubs, out for cocktails or shopping. I have also gone boating, golfing, to art galleries, private parties, the spa, amusement parks, batting cages, arcades, skiing, the beach, the casino, even the gym. Your options are really endless. Do what you feel the two of you will enjoy together!
On a pathetic note, I just realized that I do so much more fun stuff with my clients than I do in my personal life. No wonder I love my 'job' so much!
But really, what is it that you want out of an experience? For many people, one hour is simply not enough time. You are barely getting warmed up and then the time is up. I personally am partial to 2 hours or more. I am about the entire sensualy experience and that is something that cannot be had in an hour.
Bask in company of the woman you are with. Drink in her look, her smell, her touch. Explore her body and let her take time exploring your own. Savot each touch, each smell, even the sound of her voice.
A lot of time can pass with that kind of perspective. I often find that two hours is barely enough, I usually still want more. But financially it would be too difficult to balance time with frequency.
But again, what do you want from this endeavor? Wham bam thank you ma'am? Perhaps some good conversation? Some mental and emotional gratification? The more you want, the more time, in my opinion is required to meet all those needs.
One last note. Before choosing to indulge in a multi-hour or even an overnight session, have one or more shorter meetings with her so the two of you can figure out if there is enough there to make a multi-hour session worthwhile.
"Before choosing to indulge in a multi-hour or even an overnight session, have one or more shorter meetings with her so the two of you can figure out if there is enough there to make a multi-hour session worthwhile."
How true. How true. I once made the mistake of engaging an overnight with a provider I had never met, based only on her reviews. We didn't click, as in YMMV. Major waste of time and money.
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