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SummerSanders 941 reads
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I took a little glance at your website :)  Most services are clearly spelled out and no secret......the one not listed was not MSOG (at least at a quick first glance, I didn't see it) .....with everything else that is there right now you might as well jump in and list it too.....

There's many things that can get everyone on LE's list....with or without a service menu :)  Screen, Screen, common sense, logic and gut feelings are all in place in the hobby for a reason ....

Have fun and play safe!

Summer




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SexyJaye72782 reads

Ok so as a newbie, newbie provider that loves what she does, it def gets off to making a man cum with power and enthusiasm! So how do I request that I would like for him to cum without seeming like I am clock watching or kicking him out? I have been chking out reviews and I see that this is looked down upon but I really really do enjoy myself and having a CIB or CIM finish is like the icing on the cake... (I always allow for multiple pops in my sessions because of this!) I'm in a catch 22 HELP! :(

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swimtrekr1101 reads

On your site or ads, you should mention that you love multiple pops by the guys, or at least make it known when he arrives that you would love multiple pops.  You tell him that, and he will go...WOW!!!!!!  I guarantee you, this will bump up your biz.  Most guys I know would love more than one pop in an hour, but us older guys usually can't do it, but we love trying.  Personally, I love CIM, but CIB is also good.

Swim

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natashalynne1079 reads

She should not put on her website that she allows multiple pops.... just like she shouldn't have a menu of services on her website.  I guess if she has a service menu, then adding multiple pops to it couldn't hurt, but I think it's better if we advise the newbies that have service menus - and info like multiple pops - on your website can make you an easier target for LE.

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Mars621030 reads

"I am a well-reviewed, GFE, "MILF Next Door." Un-tattooed and a non-smoker, my refined outward appearance belies my inner, private passion."

That's all they need to target you (your FAQ is even more incriminating). So, you might as well use whatever code you want for MSOG.



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natashalynne770 reads

There are all of 2 references that may be incriminating:  GFE and "squirt."  The definition of GFE is highly subjective and debatable, and half the people here don't even believe squirting is real.  Is my website incriminating?  Probably.  But it is a far cry from listing services that flat out state that I will provide sex for money.

But what it comes down to with regard to giving advice to newbies is that I understand the risks I am taking in my carefully worded website.  The newbie asking the questions who does NOT understand the risks should NOT be advised to take those risks.

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Mars62557 reads

Posted By: natashalynne
There are all of 2 references that may be incriminating:  GFE and "squirt."  The definition of GFE is highly subjective and debatable,
The prosecution does not need a "smoking gun". All they need is enough evidence to prove beyond a reasonable doubt. And, guess who decides? A judge who has seen it all before.

From your FAQ page:
1. ...  I want to know you on an ...physical level.

3. ...Our human nature (or animal instinct!) will take it from there.

4. I've never seen an escort before. What do I need to know?
Answer: The Big Doggie Client Guide is a great source of information for 'newbies.' The TER Newbie Discussion Board is a good place to go for more detailed follow up questions.
From your review page (implies the reviews are accurate and not fiction):
See my excellent reviews on
The Erotic Review, The Big Doggie,
Adult Hobbyist & ECCIE!
If you get busted, and insist on a hearing, the prosecution will print your web pages and give it to the judge. Anything more than "I am a classy lady to be your arm candy at public events", and you are toast. MSOG is not any more incriminating than what you have already written.

If your lawyer has approved your web page, then I'm sure he is more than happy to have you pay him to defend you with a jury trial and all the appeals.

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natashalynne978 reads

which is that the Newbie should NOT publish that she offers multiple pops.  

With regard to everything else, I'll worry about my website, ads and reviews - you don't need to.  I'll also take care of myself legally, if I ever need to.  I assume you'll do the same for yourself if your reviews are ever used against you (also a possibility.  Or did you forget that in all of your sanctimony?).  Hopefully it won't come to that because I screen as well as I can, but if I do get busted, I'll do what I need to do to protect myself.  And yes, I have consulted a lawyer, and I know what can and cannot be used against me, and you are misinformed in your assertions.

But this post was never about me.  Swim suggested the Newbie advertise multiple pops, and I disagreed.  You agree with my disagreement.  That's all that you needed to say, if anything at all.  Thanks for all the time you spent on my site, though, and for quoting it here.  I do appreciate the publicity.

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Mars62739 reads

Posted By: natashalynne
So are agreeing with my original post...which is that the Newbie should NOT publish that she offers multiple pops.
Like I said: Anything more than "I am a classy lady to be your arm candy at public events", and you are toast. MSOG is not any more incriminating than what you have already written.

If you are in for a dime, you might as well be in for a dollar.

Your original post was: "She should not put on her website that she allows multiple pops.... just like she shouldn't have a menu of services on her website. " Your website shows that it is virtually impossible not to have enough allusions to sex to not be helpful if you are ever in court.

Unless she has a website an order of magnitude more plain than yours, she might as well list MSOG. If you are going to be at all self incriminating, you might as well get some bang for your buck.



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swimtrekr864 reads

I shouldn't have suggested that.  However, I have seen an awful lot of personal websites that do have a full menu of services offered over the years.  It probably isn't a good idea to have that out in public for unc LEO to see.

Swim

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keystonekid866 reads

would usually just ask, "What do you enjoy? or How would you like to finish?"  If I would answer, "First round CFS and 2nd round CIM" the lady would know I was planning on MSOG.

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1192967866 reads

With first time visits have the get to know you discussion. Ask him what he likes, work in a way to say what you like. I imagine most guys if you told them how much it's a turn on to you would be glade to accommodate. What you say and how you say it as encouragement during the activities matters too. There is a big difference between saying something that gives the impression of "Hurry up" and something that lets him know he's "rocking your world" when he cums.  At what point during the session you say it would be important too.
With regulars I would hope you have had the discussion and they should know by now that you like it and msog is your intention every session.

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SexyJaye7847 reads

LOL! IF I gave a "get to know you discussion" and listed what I like, well I would have multiple live in arrangements def not enough time in a session... NOT happening I am too much of a freak and can't turn the whole world out! Just spreading a lil joy, one nut (or more) at a time... ;)

I generally wait until I can tell he's held back once or twice then ask them where they would like to cum, since I am open to just about anywhere. But, it is not to get them off quicker, it's cuz I am really turned on by their excitement. The machismo a man has not to go ahead and release is amazing. Most don't want to give in >5 in but what does it matter when I know I can get you back up again? IDK ;)

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1192967584 reads

What you have told us here could surely be worked into a conversation about what you like, what he likes without telling it All at once. Posting these very things on your regional board would go a long way to get the word out there about how you enjoy it too. The issue is not making it sound like you are in a hurry. Letting him know you love it when that happens and you want to do it again is a big turn on.

Be aware too that some of us aren't going to pop more than once or rarely do. ( it's an age thing) We know from experience how we work. You may be that one to make it happen twice or more when others can't but on a first time visit we won't know that. Being relaxed and at ease will make the first one good and anything after that is a bonus. Once they get to know you and you have made it clear that it's a turn on to you you won't have any problem.

I have to ask have any of your clients complained or mentioned it in a review or are you just going by discussions/reviews you have read?

I initiate the "get to know you" discussion when I see a lady for the first time. If I said "what do you like?" and you responded with "I really get off on you cumming, CIM or COB" That would be a good start. Then say how you like more than one round whenever possible. You could say it very soft and sexy while your nuzzling my neck and breathing in my ear and nibbling on my earlobe. It's all about presentation. Then it won't sound pressuring. I wouldn't expect to get your entire list in the first discussion anyway. For that matter we wouldn't get to everything I like because it's a long list.   My two cents.

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mrfisher624 reads

I like to enjoy the plateau experience myself, and choose when to come on my own schedule.

I think that letting him decide is the best way to ensure that he will have an enjoyable orgasm.

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SummerSanders942 reads

I took a little glance at your website :)  Most services are clearly spelled out and no secret......the one not listed was not MSOG (at least at a quick first glance, I didn't see it) .....with everything else that is there right now you might as well jump in and list it too.....

There's many things that can get everyone on LE's list....with or without a service menu :)  Screen, Screen, common sense, logic and gut feelings are all in place in the hobby for a reason ....

Have fun and play safe!

Summer




Related Link: http://www.mysummersanders.com

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