About once every 3 months, I'll go to this local strip club in my area.   I usually get a dance from this one very attractive dancer when I'm there.   Thing is, she'll grab and stroke my dick through my pants on her own accord, but whenever I suggest it, she'll totally ignore my request.   Now, as you can see, it's not a matter of her worrying about getting caught, otherwise she wouldn't do it on her own accord to begin with, but it seems whenever I suggest it, she totally ignores me.   Yet what's funny, is that, she'll let me kiss her and get on top of her and dry hump her, but she'll never respond to my request of stroking my dick through my pants when I suggest it.   She'll do it when she wants, but if I suggest it, she won't.   The only thing I can think of here, is that, she ignores my request for no other reason than a power thing.   It's all about a power thing.   Anyone wanna add their 2 cents?