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FlaSailorRon 24 Reviews 327 reads
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And cast your line in another fishing hole, no bites in that one.

smoking4201795 reads

So I sent a booking request for a provider via her website and didn't hear anything after a couple of days.  So I then followed up with an email, yet still no word (been a total of 5 days now).  I do have a couple of references, etc. but am I missing something?  She keeps updating her calendar and the date i requested still says available.  So I am confused.  Am I basically getting told to f-off?  Was my etiquette off?  Didn't say anything incendiary nor explicit.  Kind of whack, considering I've been wanting to see her for some time...any thoughts?

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clarence37385 reads

but are simply blowing off steam, because how he fuck should we know what is going on inside the head of a random, unknown provider?

Maybe she in fact has found something wrong with your e-mail inquiry and is blowing you off.
How do we know you didn't say anything "incendiary"? Post the text, or we'll never know.

Maybe she is a lazy, unprofessional twat.

Maybe she has an assistant who updates her calendar, but she personally reviews e-mails and hasn't gotten to yours yet. Maybe she is on the road,  visiting family, lying in a hospital bed, or kidnapped in the back of a truck on it's way to South America.

Maybe she's been kidnapped by aliens and will see you when they place her back on earth, ready to impregnate you with her alien seed. Go ahead and laugh, but I knew a guy that this happened to.

Sorry for the angry tone, but something on another board has me a little pissed off. The truth is, we don't know what the problem is. You might try one more email with an apologetic tone saying that you don't mean to be a pest but really hope that she will get back to you because you are very eager to meet her. If you still don't get a reply, then move on or drive yourself crazy. Those are really the only two choices.

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Mr.Tennis424 reads

I am actually in a similar spot.  Currently waiting on a response from a provider I'm interested in.  I would give it the benefit of the doubt and wait for the weekend to end before trying again.  As a friendly poster replied in my own thread, girls don't live on their computers :)  I'm going wait a few days, but I'm going to try and call the provider I fancy on Monday.  If your provider has a phone number listed, then calling might be your best option.

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swimtrekr452 reads

Getting nasty with the clueless guy is not necessary, regardless of what happened to you on another board, leave it there.

To the OP,  a lot of what Clarence said has validity, I just didn't like the way he said it (I'm the newbie host).  It is hard to answer some questions from newbies when we don't have all the background information.  However, if you have not received a reply in a couple of days, I'd move on.  There are too many providers out there to waste time waiting for one to reply who might have no intention of making a date with you.

Swim

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FlaSailorRon328 reads

And cast your line in another fishing hole, no bites in that one.

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RedheadBombshell404 reads

Look at your handle. Not everyone is 420 friendly, including lil ol' me. While you may not have put anything "incendiary" in your communication with her, something as seemingly harmless as the name you've chosen would be a "no" for me.  

That may not be the issue in this case. My point is, there could be any number of personal reasons for not staying in contact. Although she may be your first choice, there are many lovely women available. Researching additional ladies sounds like a lot more fun than waiting by your keyboard.

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smoking420403 reads

Yeah I hear yah.  I found someone else to hang out with.  I am no longer 420 friendly, but TER doesn't seem to allow me to change my handle.  New to the game, so I'm going to have a lot of stupid questions and hang ups.  Appears to be the nature of my beast.

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