Yup, I've never done a motel meeting for that exact reason. I will only go to nice hotels and, whenever possible, I prefer to book the room myself and schedule outcall.
Can anyone who has had run ins with LE share any stories of what happened or what little things to look for. I know we need to do research and read the reviews but I was just wondering about other signs to look for, for those of us new to the game.
Scan back thru the pages. I'll leave you with a few thoughts. Always STFU if confronted by LE and donut crumbs on the hotel incall room floor are a sure sign of trouble ahead.
I've been at this a while and I've found that common sense and trusting your gut is the best defense along with ALWAYS thinking with the big head. When LE sets up a sting they are preying on the guys who don't do their homework. Personally, I avoid any provider who works out of a private residence or a motel. Motels are far too easy for LE to set-up on and private residences, homes or apartment complex attract too much attention from neighbors.
So does that just leave an outcall to your home?
Have gone to motels as well, but it's not my fave place to visit. Many providers have an incall apt just for that, while they actually live elsewhere. I have also seen providers where they live. If she is well reviewed, where she does incall should make little difference. It's the ones with no, or very few, reviews you have to be very careful of.
As a newb, an outcall to your home is not a good idea. Nyou should avoid that until you have seen her several times and have a trut built. Outcalls to your house are the easiest praey for unscrupulous people. Not only does she know where you live, but others could as well, people you don't want coming to your house. Get the picture?
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You are right I did not notice the motel vs. hotel thing. I do not want to do an outcall to my house, I was just trying to fully understand your point.
Read more carefully. Hotels are fine, MOTELS are a bad idea. If you don't know the difference go do a Google search! Also, Out calls to your home are OK if you know the lady very well. NEVER do an out call to your home with a new girl.
One last thing. I will book a nicer motel if I am doing an out call with a girl that I know well. Providers are generally a bit hesitant about motels as well. If you book and then give her a motel address she may not show up for fear of walking into a sting.
when the room doors open up onto the parking lot rather than a corridor.
LE are known to prefer the former as they can watch the perps walk over from their cars and be prepared for them.
There have been some busts in hotels, most notably around Boston a big bust at the Long Wharf Marriott almost two years ago, but the cheapy motels with their view of the parking lot are what LE really likes.
Yup, I've never done a motel meeting for that exact reason. I will only go to nice hotels and, whenever possible, I prefer to book the room myself and schedule outcall.
...I'd rather sleep in my car...really
only nice ones. definetly
not a good idea? I would think unless they try a swat team intervention, is there really a problem. I'm in the boston area and there doesn't seem like there is a ton of vice bust going down. TV loves to report on it and google doesn't show a ton of action. Is it a regional thing as far as LE pressure?
It certainly pays to watch the local news, and newspapers. My area only cracks down on the streetwalkers, to combat neighborhood blight, and response to neighborhood watch complaints. The only bust I can ever remember was on a setup where a office in a small strip mall was used. The neighboring businesses complained, no business sign in front, guys going in and out at all hours, c'mon man, be smart. I've seen reviews about this type of incall, can't believe anyone would want to meet in an office environment.
and here's why. First you're inviting a TOTAL stranger into your home. You have no idea what she is like. And I don't mean her escort skills. Does she happen to have sticky fingers and will she try and steal anything of value that's not nailed down. Did she bring a couple of thugs along with her who may follow her into your home and rob you. She now knows where you live and could use it against you
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If you live in a private home, in a nice neighborhood and she shows up in her hooker outfit and cfm pumps and a neighbor sees her, you might get a little embarrassed. And finally if you're inviting her to your home and you live with a S/O (wife/girlfriend) who's away, trust me, ladies have a 6th sense about these things, plus a stray hair here or there.
I've only had 2 escorts come to my home and I've been doing this for a little awhile. Both were favs that I had been seeing for a very long time before I invited them over.
OK, vets did I miss anything
I am familiar with a lot of crime data... and very often, the criminal or an accomplice has had a reason to be there before... a delivery guy, repair guy, a friend stops by with their latest "friend". Well, this "friend" or her buddy, BF, pimp returns & shakes you down, B&E, or home invasion. There was a whole family murdered not long ago... it was all over the news... the home invaders trashed the place looking for a safe they knew was there. They had inside information from some source. I don't have a bunch of valueables in a safe... but the underlying principal is the same.
A public event was held near me some years ago... over run with crowds & people wandering everywhere. Several burglaries were linked back to people who attended the event.
Let's all be careful who we let into our homes.
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If you live in a private home, in a nice neighborhood and she shows up in her hooker outfit and cfm pumps and a neighbor sees her, you might get a little embarrassed. And finally if you're inviting her to your home and you live with a S/O (wife/girlfriend) who's away, trust me, ladies have a 6th sense about these things, plus a stray hair here or there.
I've only had 2 escorts come to my home and I've been doing this for a little awhile. Both were favs that I had been seeing for a very long time before I invited them over.
OK, vets did I miss anything
I use my home. For me its safer but then again its the same faces comn thru as i see regulars. I also take very limited appts. never more than one dayi think residence is ok if very limited appts are being done. And person has front or other normal day job they also do part time.
never heard of such...hmmm
Ditto, having a home run business and very low volume does wonders.
I do see one ATF at her residence but she has a cover story in her legit home business, parking assigned to that business, etc. In general, hotels are the best your room or hers.
Really the thing to watch for... is the girl without reviews. A well reviewed provider 6-10 reviews minimum, with at least some by vetran reviewers... you need to get VIP, read the full reviews at least the whole last page, as well as her web site, ads (often have pictures). The profile form... performed as advertized? On time? Real pictures? cross referance with the reviews. Sometimes a girl changes her offerings (from a BBBJ ot a CBJ for instance)... On pictures, I don't feel they need to be explicit but I need a variety of poses & angles so I know what she really looks like. If you do diligent research, you should be confident in who you are seeing.
The biggest risk is a scam of some sort... under performance, up sell, Bait & switch, just too many to list them all. We want to avoid LE of course, it's not the greatest risk.
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Good points. I'm a newb and totally sceptical of everything. I stay away from ads advertising multiple girls or "friends" and they don't show any face pics. Bait and switch.
Really the thing to watch for... is the girl without reviews. A well reviewed provider 6-10 reviews minimum, with at least some by vetran reviewers... you need to get VIP, read the full reviews at least the whole last page, as well as her web site, ads (often have pictures). The profile form... performed as advertized? On time? Real pictures? cross referance with the reviews. Sometimes a girl changes her offerings (from a BBBJ ot a CBJ for instance)... On pictures, I don't feel they need to be explicit but I need a variety of poses & angles so I know what she really looks like. If you do diligent research, you should be confident in who you are seeing.
The biggest risk is a scam of some sort... under performance, up sell, Bait & switch, just too many to list them all. We want to avoid LE of course, it's not the greatest risk.
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