If I go to a big chain outdoor motel & get a 1 occupancy/1 night stay and take an outcall, is there any way I can get caught if provider is straight?
Do I need to worry about an incall at motel/hotel?
Are there any warning indicators that something is wrong?
Is provider location ok?
Most providers prefer coming to a minimum 3* hotel with indoor corridors. Some limit outcalls (coming to your room) to 4* and 5* hotels only.
If it's a sting it's a sting, the cops aren't paying for the room anyway...
As KK said, most better providers prefer nice hotels with indoor corridors for their own comfort and safety. I've done one or two in calls to motels and actually felt fairly uncomfortable myself. At the risk of sounding like a snob, cheap motels can attract a fairly low class clientèle and the atmosphere outside of your room may not always be conducive to your relaxation...or hers.
My thinking is outdoor corridor and my room, what could go wrong? How do you not alarm management?
What about a "couples get away suite" w/ the fireplace & whirltub (good idea or bad)?
I want a safe & clean provider, I thought the $1/2 - $$$1/2 range would be alright (or no)?
Is there personal place a bad idea?
Or is it more economical & safer to go out & buy a Chevy Aveo & put a hole in the passenger side seat? -Tnank u for your respones.
There are a lot of factors here. If it's an outside corridor, management may not even notice her arriving at your place if she's quiet and dresses discretely. Furthermore, she just may be your girlfriend or co-worker that you are meeting for a little fun. Unless she looks like a total tramp and there's a pimp waiting in a car outside, the management will probably just mind their own business. Within reason, they don't really care what happens inside the rooms, as long as it doesn't scare other customers away or bring LE.
Fireplace and hot tub are all well and good if you want to create a romantic setting and fool around in the water, but I'm not sure if all providers would be into that, and if you only have an hour it may be tough to do all that in such a short time. I think the providers are mostly interested in a clean, safe, reasonably nice place.
$1/2 sounds a little low except for a quickie, but for $$$1/2 you should do fine (depending on what city you live in). If you're going through all the trouble of getting a room, you might want to book more than an hour.
No, her personal place is not a bad idea. The great majority of my visits have been incall. She feels safer in her own place, and it's cheaper all the way around.
Even thought I travel a lot, the only outcall I've done so far was to a longer-stay hotel, which is more like a small apartment complex. The parking lot had a security gate, so I met her out front, got in her car, gave her my room key so that she could open the gate, and then we drove back to my building. When we were walking to my room, there were other people milling about, and we walked right by them as if we belonged. It helped that the provider was my age, and dressed in jeans and a conservative top, so we just looked like two normal middle-aged people. She could have been anyone -- my sister, my spouse, a co-worker, a friend.
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I use hotels but if can do go too cheap. The road crew next door will let you know she is there before you knock and keep you up.
"get caught if provider is straight?"
I am guessing you mean LE? I don't see how any of that helps or hurts the LE issue. Obviously well reviewed and established providers are least likely to be setting you up. If you mean caught by spouse or something that is unanswerable, IMO.
"Do I need to worry about an incall at motel/hotel?"
Again I'm not sure which "worry" u mean. But YES there is always a chance of a sting by LE or some setup to rob you etc. Again it is your comfort factor with the provider that most predicts such things. First times are most vulnerable and unknown. Getting references FOR THEM is another decent idea if u r concerned by the area or motel.
"Are there any warning indicators that something is wrong?"
Hearing Miranda. Just joking! Trust your instincts. If it feels/smells fishy then bail and let them know you got spooked. I was waiting for a gal in my car outside the room she was to meet me at when a cop car started circling and I almost bailed. She later told me he was cool and she knew him and the owner so it wasn't any danger. That time was okay but I had some LV experiences where I should have bailed and didn't and near close calls. Better safe than sorry!
"Is provider location ok?"
If you mean as a bellwheather of safety NO WAY. i do think that in general the provider is more at risk and more targeted than clients, BY LE. But there are plenty of other dangers for the clients when you are involved in what the ahole politicians have determined is illicit and illegal. Many unscrupulous types think that means anything goes and rip-offs and scams and set-ups are more likely as a result. Pimps can be involved as well. Same thing with illegal gambling and other illegal "hobbies".
I think Kev has covered all of the bases pretty well in his post. There is a reason why providers have preferences. Smart, successful ladies stick with what works. If you want to spend the cash on a fancy couples suite I would suggest you wait until you have found a lady who you have a bit of a connection with you and will enjoy the fringe benefits of such a room along with you. Really all you need to do is find a well reviewed lady who does in call and your accommodations problem is solved. If, for some reason you have your heart set on out call I would stick with a busy hotel, maybe even ask the lady if she has a preference.
The risk of LE has a lot more to do with the lady you choose than with where you choose to do the deed. Price really isn't a good indicator here. A $$$$ a night lady with no reviews and no website could very well be a sting while the $$.50 girl on CL with the Cityvibe add may be a great lady.
True story: One time in Orlando on business, the conference was at one of the Disney hotels. It turns out that the providers LOVE coming to Disney because the security is so good! I simply needed to call the gate to say I was expecting visitors (yes, it was a duo). They showed up, gave my name, and we had a great time.
In Orlando, the 4* and 5* hotels near the airport are very conscious of the hobby and busts are not uncommon - they make a big deal out of it so that it discourages providers/hobbyists and reassures families. One of the hotels (can't remember which) actually has a lock-up in the basement!
So my lesson here is: pay attention to the local situation! Ask providers. Post a message on the regional board asking for good hotels, etc.
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