Hi Sexy Sally,

My name is bonerbob, we had a session about a month ago.  There's a gal that I would like to see who requires a reference and I was wondering if you could provide one for me.

Her email is [email protected] and she has a website at www.hharriette.com

Thanks so much and thank you also for the wonderful time we had.

Yours,

BB

(The names above are fictional, but if they do indeed turn out to belong to anyone, my apologisies,)

don't give references at all, some give them only up to a certain length of time and some don't say at all. If she offers references and you fall w/in her timeline or she doesn't say one way or the other, then the letter mrfisher gives is a good one.

Send her an e-mail beforehand to request that she provide a reference.  Not all ladies will do so, but many will.  If you have seen the lady you are asking more than once, and she has reason to believe you will do so again, that will work in your favor.

I usually ask after a session if it would be OK. However, if I forgot to, and it's only been a couple of weeks, and I know that she's reference-friendly, I question whether it's necessary to go through the formality of a back-and-forth email. Escorts get buried with extraneous email and phone calls as it is. Unless you aren't sure she'd be receptive, it only complicates the screening process.

but not required.I am reference friendly which is stated on my website but some ladies are not and sometimes it is not posted on her website if she is or not.I would not use a lady for a reference if you have seen this lady a year ago or more.Just be polite and ask the lady you want to use as a reference if she offers references and the name of the lady that will be contacting her.

your referance.   Most will deny unless you clear it in advance.   How can provider know if it is another provider OR your wife or SO or their PI asking?  
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and you'll come back if you had a good time but you're not any one lady's personal hobbiest.