I see lots of gals, but have only had the FC experience twice.

Not sure if safer or not, but definitely better sensation for the guy (not so much for her, however.)

I suppose if I asked gals about using them, they might be more open to trying them, but they do require some practice to install correctly.

It does throw off the rhythm of the session and they don't look particularly appealing either.  They also feel a bit cool when you first insert yourself in them.  Probably a good idea to let it soak in a cup of hot water before using.

They cost quite a bit more too.

But a lot of providers in mid to upper echelon of the price structure have started to carry it..

If you want, and can do it discreetly, you can order some from online stores such as Amazon or CondomDepot and request it to be used after you've been verified by the gal. This way, you have higher chance of enjoying the experience. Its as safe as male condom..

i talk to three that will do bbfs before using a fc.

with a lady who uses FC.  It was a great experience and with far more sensitive feelings than wearing a regular condom.  Definitely the way to go for us guys over 50.