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where are you looking for your providers?

I know everybody has personal preference but i see this with most providers even the black ones. Why?

They don't have to see anyone they don't want to. It's their business and their bodies.  

It is that simple. Next

MM

Perhaps "many" providers won't see black men, but definitely not "most." Most would mean more than half and it is certainly not true, that more than half the providers out there will not see black men.

This question gets asked a lot on this board, the General discussion board and regional boards. Do a search if you want to see various answers, but why ask at all? The answer should not matter to you.

Reasons are anything from racism and stereotypes, to pimps, to past bad experiences, but the most common is personal preference. Their body. Their rules. Move on. If you are a black man who is trying to get someone to see you who has a "no blacks" policy, why bother? Why would you want to see someone who doesn't want to see you? There are plenty who are more than happy to see you. Seek them out instead of trying to change someone's mind or trying to figure out why.


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where are you looking for your providers?

Privateprovider605 reads

I keep seeing this question asked and see so many answers involving racism.  Had to pull up the alias for this but here it is the truth: The stereotype about Black men and size is TRUE overall.  In addition to a very LARGE  size black men are different in bed.  In my experience they go go go for longer length of time than a typical Caucasian man. Speaking truth here.  The combination would be great if a boyfriend but for a provider well you get my point.  I can only see my one black client if I am not working the next couple days.  Ironic part is its actually a compliment to black men but sometimes too much for a provider's body. There it is no bs!

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I keep seeing this question asked and see so many answers involving racism.  Had to pull up the alias for this but here it is the truth: The stereotype about Black men and size is TRUE overall.  In addition to a very LARGE  size black men are different in bed.  In my experience they go go go for longer length of time than a typical Caucasian man. Speaking truth here.  The combination would be great if a boyfriend but for a provider well you get my point.  I can only see my one black client if I am not working the next couple days.  Ironic part is its actually a compliment to black men but sometimes too much for a provider's body. There it is no bs!
All kidding aside, the thing about polls is that they really only respresent the people in the polls. While the provider stated her opinion and the facts as it relates to her, it is only accurate for the black cocks that she have seen. I can not and will not speak for other black males, but I rather be judge based on my abilities and the genetic soup lineage that produced me instead of some, I assume well meaning, generalizing compliment.

Back to the original question, there are many reasons. Look though TER boards and you will fine many of them listed. I agree with some of the other posters that it really should not matter. If a provider has a no black policy, for whatever reason or reasons, and you are a black male, then search out a provider that you like and that is willing to see you. If you can not find a provider that is willing to see you, then you can either start traveling and wait unti a provider comes to your area that has no problem seeing you.

Privateprovider411 reads

Just an FYI, I was not referring to my experience only.  I was mentioned my personal schedule which I happily adjust around my one black  client at present.  My opinion and my body is naturally unique. My post however is based on the four agency policies I am affiliated with in one way or another.  If a girl spends time with a luscious black client and she has to cancel remaining schedule and or call out the next day ( that black client is no longer able to visit with her). Obviously this is not every agency/independent policy.  Maybe others were right and some are racist.  I choose to ignore the racist piece and comment on the behind the scenes well documented answer.  If I were referring to my experience only I would have stated. I will REPEAT that this commonly observed practice regarding black men is a COMPLIMENT. Same question is asked frequently, my answer obviously doesn't apply to every provider. It does apply to more than I my friend, you can bet on that!

We can go back and forth on this until the end of time and I doubt neither of our opinions are going to change on the subject. Speaking for myself only, I would not take such as a compliment because I don't like being generlize in such a manner.

At the end of the day each provider is going to set their own rules, which is their right to. If they have a no black male policy, then move on to someone else that does not.

quite honestly, in my field of sw, I'll see anyone who can pass my verification and pay my rate.  Race and ethnicity matter not. Everyone is allowed a preference as to how they conduct their business, though.

Privateprovider457 reads

Wow I read other posts and just wanted to share that NOW THIS IS ONLY MY EXPERIENCE but the black men I have seen and particularly the client at present: is one of my most generous clients.  One other thing I failed to mention and should have.  The practice of avoiding for size and performance applies to ANY man.  Just so happens to be more common with black men.

and open-ended question to a crowd of people who may or may not want to tell you their personal information or why.
one thing could be because they were raped by a black guy.
another thing could be that they have clients who are racist who lives nearby them and can see their apartment or see their hotel or will somehow find out there seeing black men and then not come see them anymore.
I have tons and tons of clientele that are tell you in that ages range from late 30's too late 80's
all of which with no exceptions if they ever found out or seen a black guy leaving my incall they would never come see me again.!
I also have boyfriends in my private life who definitely use the N word
and yes they would not speak to me anymore if they saw a black man coming in and out of my house'
and then I would lose my best clients and my life would be over'
me personally I do not find black men attractive at all so it would also make it hard for me to get through an appointment'
the past three black men I have spoken to concerning an appointment over the past year'
none of them had more than 150 so I chose not to do the appointment'
this is a stigma you will have to overcome and search for someone who has it written on their website that they do not discriminate against age race or size'
we're making yourself vulnerable being naked
basically anything that you are doing concerning your body your mind your space
where we live in America it is no one else's business and no one needs to explain to anyone the reasons for doing things it just is'
people cast judgement on people for all types of reasons'
for me I have many clients and many boyfriends who are very adamant about asking me if I see or f*** black guys'
and I score say no and I of course cannot be seen associating with black clients in and out of my place'
if this is not the answer you wanted to hear well this is my answer and this is my reasoning why
so my two reasons summed up would be number 1 as far as I've seen none of the black clients I've ever met or talked to have enough money for a full hour appointment and I don't even charge much for full hour appointment as it is'
otherwise maybe I would consider it so far not one black guy has ever been able to come up with an hour appointment
secondly I have client actually most of my clients are hundred percent Italian and it just wouldn't fly well with them if I was f****** black men

I'm open to race as far as seeing clients, but I will admit that I've only had issues with black clients (attempting not to pay, wanting more time w/o paying, changing appointment time without notifying me), but thats not to say it couldn't have been anyone else. That has just been my personal experiences with black men as a provider

Everyone has their own reasons, but 1 that stands out in particular is because they have a black pimp that tells them no black men.

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